Q: my son 6 years old, his emotions are particularly vulnerable to impulse, get angry easily, more and more bad-tempered, and sometimes even fell to the ground crying. His bad temper on the how to guidance?
A: many parents in order to correct the child\'s bad temper, often forcibly interrupted the child express anger and unpleasant process, this is not science. Parents must understand that, as children and adults need to vent their unhappiness and anger, so when the child is angry, first of all, parents should learn to accept the child\'s anger, so that children in the psychological balance. To do this, parents should be aware of the following several points:
1, create a warm, peaceful environment for children. Good family living environment is not easy to make the child from emotional impulse.
2, teach children ways to express anger. Children because of the limited life experience and capacity, often do not know how to express and balance their emotions and parents to teach children ways to express anger, let your child recognize the expression of non-infringement of others is allowed, such as by painting, storytelling and other ways to express his anger.
3, good mood infected children. Practice has proved that parents \' emotional stability, emotions are more general health of the child, on the contrary, child\'s emotions are more violent. So parents should check, whether our own way of vent anger could be improved.
4, bad emotions of transferred children. When the child is undesirable emotions, things of interest to parents free child transfers children\'s attention, allow their emotions to conversion.
5, give their children opportunities to adjust the emotion. Induced by parents for children to be inspired, so that children have a chance to adjust the emotion.
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