3/9/11

Correct attitude towards the children of \"crying\"

Cry is a way for children to express feelings and experiences. For babies, crying is their signals to express negative emotions, such as, let MOM and dad know they change diapers, the feed, and so on. As children grow older, they express themselves need to enhance capacity and experience, crying is no longer the primary means of expression of their needs and experience, but more based on language, means of action, and learn to solve the problems encountered.


Children will have a wide range of emotional expression, they sometimes cry to express their negative emotions. However, if they cried as the only means to solve the problem, difficulty crying and crying at the psychological dependence, this will have an adverse effect on child mental health. First of all, often in a negative mood State of children, various organs of the body is inhibited, affecting the normal development. Second, the cry is not conducive to child form positive and effective communication. If and when other children playing games does not know how to discuss it with others, what difficulties will cry, after growing up is difficult to learn to get along with others, and other friendly. This interaction will develop into a personality tendency to retreat or an extreme Act address the reality of social life in the conflict, cannot adapt to the pace of modern life.


Again, children often in a State of negative emotions, will also affect parents \' emotions, so that they have a sense of remorse and unable, \"people\'s children have a good, and I how to bring out so crying children? \"In turn affect how parents treat their children, their lack of patience, forming bad cycle of negative emotion between children and their parents.


In short, children can not grow without stretching the eyebrows and blooms in smiles. Healthy, happy children often have a positive, happy emotions, young parents to be aware of is best developed when young children positive, cheerful mood and emotion, cultivate their independence, so that they become the generation of physical and mental health.

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