3/9/11

Talk about baby

In the process of formation of attachment between parent-child, the father and mother also played an important role. A study on the effect that, if the father of positive inputs to newborns in the spiritual world, will have a positive impact on children\'s development.


After the birth of a child, mother on duty to serve as a feeding, responsibility of caring for children, and the formation of a good attachment relationship, and his father seemed to work away from the rearing and tending children, children cannot be strong attachment relationships, always find many reasons to explain to the father. It is said that men outside the home, home, main is the responsibility of the mother looking after the children, some people think that man to the family, career, work all day, there was no time to take care of the child. Children taken care of by the mother only, attachment to mother?   But in the process of formation of attachment between parent-child, the father and mother and had an important role to play. How would father good attachment relationship with the baby?


Remember that face


First of all to familiar with each other with the children, take some time to observe your child, remember that he looks like, carefully check all parts of his body, and figure out how to make him pegged to your face, and getting familiar with your face. Baby touch


You can talk to their children, playing with children, when a child is milk to soothe, baby diaper often and so on. In fact, when you touch the children, holding a child, you are triggering his body movement, triggering his brain and muscle activity. When you are talking, playing with the children, you are given to children of different stimulation, this can help children actively respond to environmental changes. United Kingdom a study confirmed that after the birth of a child in the 1th month, father if you can do the above, then at the age of child 1 handling skills, pattern identification, Word memorizing ability score significantly higher than those of the father was not involved in the minds of children of the world\'s peer.


Together with the mother to feed a baby


Breastfeeding arm around his wife and children after patting a child breastfeeding after breast coaxed him to sleep


Adjust the emotion, competent \"father\" role


When the baby after the birth of great changes of the past life, father\'s pressure was heavy. Father is very busy, it is necessary to take care of his wife, but also care for good baby; may feel exhausted, units and family run at both ends, both ends have to be worried about; more is shoulder heavy responsibilities, father to a person cost of the maintenance of the family, but also do a lot of tedious domestic helpers, which may lead to feeling low, depressed father. When the father must remain calm, believes he can play this role. You might as well in the early weeks of the baby\'s birth, to find as much time as possible together with the children, can hold him through skin contact, you will continue to increase parent-child of love, guardian of the young life of responsibility also arises spontaneously. When baby feel your presence, to smile to you, you might be unprecedented happiness came to mind.

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