Children love back to do?

When children grow up to three or four years, significantly enhanced its independent desires. They became aware of their presence, unwilling to be suppressed, not content to imitate adult requires independent thought, independent actions. For child care while parents too much, too much interference, it will make them particularly offensive. The highlight of their performance is not command themselves often back to parents, parents have a headache. Back to kids love, what should I do?

First, the desire to respect independence.
1, let the child go dry, to touch, to think about, parents provide activities for children as possible a chance to create active environment.
2, does not always require the child in accordance with the model of adult action, when the child has a different idea, did something never done things parents should actively support, approval in a timely manner.
3, developing family democracy, giving children more say.

Second, criticized the education children avoid nagging. Parents \' inappropriate words and deeds, has the responsibility to make the necessary reminders, warnings, and even serious criticism, but it must be concise and avoid repeating, harp. Also pay attention to speak and teach, use action, role model to guide the children develop the ability of self-education.

Third, pay attention to communicate with the child\'s spirit. Understanding of each child is hungry for adults, parents should learn to always listen to the views of the child, and strive to understand their feelings, and \"I think sth\" to express their opinions and evaluations, making children feel their parents \' room, the Wonderland, so willing to accept the views of the parents.

Four, children\'s character quality. Parents need to educate children to respect their elders, inspiring children to others \' opinions more brains, seriously considered after speech to foster stable, faithful, be good to keep his good personality quality.

Five, the establishment of harmonious family atmosphere.
1, love between family members, care, families abound in an atmosphere of harmony, solidarity, freedom, happiness. Even if the disagreement in the family, also quarrel is not on the front of the children as much as possible, but through consultation.
2, when parents educate children, do not use the command mode, and should inspire children with a friendly attitude to avoid boring lectures.
3, does not require children immediately follow parents say every word, but leave their thoughts and emotions the preparation time to prevent raised children\'s \"reverse psychology\" and the feeling.