His father is the source to the positive impact of the children

A year ago, several research institutions of education and research in Beijing to about 1600 family \"family education\" survey found respondents mother in 70.2% per cent of the surveyed population as a whole, but the father only by one-fifth. As a result of this survey is for parents of children more about the party in, suggesting, now in family education in the mother in a key position, played a major role in education. However, in the family in modern society, of the father\'s role is not to replace, fathers \' gender roles, character formation, intelligence training, capacity development, have a great impact.

In the United States in June 1998 parents magazine, father deemed to be a child\'s life has the following effects--

1. the father and mother are different;
2. father loves to play with the children;
3. fathers \' role in promoting greater;
4. father used language more complex;
5. father constraints on children more;
6. father the socialization of children, prepared as he went into the real world;
7. presentation of men\'s role in real life and behavior;
8. father supports his wife;
9. father will help children develop their potential.

So how does the father to the children in your life with a positive impact?

First: fathers are important partners of children games

Family interactions, relative to their mothers more time is spent in the care of children, fathers are more games with the children. Father touch, limb movement games with high child, leisurely back and forth, or throw down. These big, intense physical game children happily \"all chortled\" laugh.

Children and parents in the first 3 years form a different type of relationship, pain, he is more to the mother for comfort, and when you want to play, you think father more. When the child walks, games, like together with his father. At 20 months, his father became the child\'s basic game partners; at 30 months, then become more major game partners. Social interactions initiated by the 20-month-old baby father obviously interested in the game, the positive response. 30-month-old baby to the excitement, emotion, inputs, close, cooperative and interest and father play, they will partner to choose father as the first game.

Second: father children a positive personality is an important source of

Modern society, good female characteristics by society, and is caring for people, thoughtful, good compassion, goodwill and good male characteristics, namely, the independent, the independent, strong, decisive, confident, with others, aggressive, and other social requirements for people.

Father on the quality of children\'s personality formation has a great role in promoting, important source is good personality of the child. Fathers often have independent, confident, autonomous, determination, courage, determination, strong and daring to take risks, to be overcome, full of aggressive, full of spirit, passion, personality characteristics such as outgoing, cheerful, generous, wide and thick. Continuous exchanges and interaction between the child and father, accept the effect on the one hand and quietly learning, imitation; on the other hand, the father also consciously, or unconsciously requires the child to have the above characteristics. If a child under 5 years ago lost his father, on the development of his personality is very bad. Younger children, the greater impact. No father of the child would lack the courage to overcome difficulties, has more dependencies, lack of self-confidence, aggressiveness, impulse control and moral character of development at the same time has also been undermined.