Culture of mouse gentleman

I have been hoping that his son would make a smart, cute, polite, reasonable, popular kids, in fact, I have been continuous efforts to this end. So, when son vote to appreciate more and more people look more and more praise alight upon his son, I deeply felt for his son to be proud of from the heart. I am glad that my efforts were not in vain, son of direction and a solid as I want a significant step forward, he more and more like a little gentleman.
High-handed arrogant selfish children only makes people tired of unreasonable and a wide berth, when the son in the days of family love and started when there is a trend of such character, I started some worry. I realized that cultivating a small reason cultured gentleman is the most important thing.
I had kind of a Camellia, whenever the flowers numerous times, MOM will be standing next to a small stick fixed, to prevent excessive load of Camellia bending branches droop scattered or broken. When all the Camellia open when, each flower is up to the Sun of vigorous and energetic, people feel it flourishing spiritual and State. Sometimes, the child is like a small seedling small trees, their development also require proper guidance and training. Buried in obscure details of life, small habit of sometimes inadvertently will be able to control a child\'s personality development, influencing his life. One day when I was teaching his son how to do better, I found benefit from not only my son, which, I learn more. Because his son\'s progress for everyone to see, so I have rough rough summary of recent childcare experience-how to let your child be more polite, more reasonable, more consideration for others, where you want the lessons.

First, it is extremely important to themselves for example. Since I found one son out of my mouth are active \"idiot\" after the word, I began to own behavior have extra attention. Age as son\'s children still can\'t tell what when talking about words incorrectly told his parents as of the close contact with the most frequent objects of imitation. So, establish a good image in the eyes of the children is the first request of the parents. In life, we have the best possible use of \', \' \' OK? \' \' I\'m sorry such words to express our needs or apology. Did not take long, I would be pleased to hear my son said to me: \"MOM, could you help me with toys? \"He ordered me to like this before:\" MOM, you to give me the toy, come on. \"As long as we set an example to make a variety of demonstrations, the children will be unconscious by his parents in subtle, polite. In addition, there will be unexpected harvest, I found our family atmosphere harmonious so much better than before.

Second, say thank you for the kids and sometimes, it is difficult to hear the parents to have children to say thank you. Usually there are two possible, one is to help parents give their children opportunity; the second is that kids do something is a matter of course for parents, parents no need to thank. Every time when I run around in circles, I help my son will ask one of busy. For example: \"Xiang, helping my mother take a clean piece of paper to do good? \"Or\" Xiang, can you help my mother do pick up a little Chair? \"As long as I speak, the son is always very exciting to do what he can do things. After you complete the task at a time, he ran to take credit report: MOM, well, I\'m done. At this time, if the son turns or cool treats will certainly blow of his product and help. So, I first have to do is keep him as an adult to look at: thank you, Oh, this mother can much more easily. At this time, son Hing high mining column, because of his ability to be sure. Next time let him do things when his passion doubled to cope with. More important is that when I give him a hand washing or when he peeled fruits, he would say \"Thanks Mom\". Say thank you to him are also respects him, he would learn to respect others.

Third, give the child to consider the feelings of others, we live in the five-floor, sometimes the son will drag chairs from the living room to room, then back to the room to the living room, a variety of large and harsh in his voice. At this time, yelling violent block would not stop his son made a mistake, others are small but good face of the character will only increase. Usually I\'ll talk in a soft voice advised him: \"so much noise, downstairs is startled by the person. If someone is suddenly scared of you jump, you like to do? \"Two year old son nods when listening to my words, because he had suddenly issued a sharp sound and crying in terror next door. He seldom after loud noise, and occasionally also taught his father said, \"Dad, to point in a low voice, or you\'ll scare others. \"Son learned to consider other people\'s feelings in small things, everything not self-centered.