Showing posts with label respect. Show all posts
Showing posts with label respect. Show all posts

3/9/11

Game is children\'s work

Adults to go to work every day, in fact, the significance of children games also do so. France famous thinkers mengshan said: \"children\'s play should be not just as entertainment, but should be seen as children are the most serious action. \"Children need game every day, the game was one of the most important psychosocial needs of children to grow up.


Significance of games on children, first, by games express a wide variety of sentiments is the use of games to try to resolve and manage the second life have encountered in extremely complex and is on the brink of conflict. Adults can understand how children are looking at the world and explain the world of the game.


While the children were absorbed in the game, it is best not to unwarrantable interference. Because any interference, are likely to be ruining children\'s talent for creating. For children to create the mood of the game is the best thing parents done. For children every day for a time and a certain amount of space to let him free to play, with their own unique way of experiencing life, understanding of the world.


Toys are the backbone of children games, giving children their age toys is very important. Toys do not have to buy homemade toys are not only affordable, but also conducive to child development of creative thinking.


Proper active participation of parents, not only the children experience the love and respect from their parents, and promote parent-child relationship. Fun games for children in the family and human exchanges, in the future have a significant impact on the socialization of the child.

Kong Xiangdong advised parents: three years ago the best piano

Today is first day of the Kong Xiangdong music kindergarten Advisory registered in Pudong new area, enthusiasm of parents to children in the rain \"Apprentice\". Reporters found, some seeking art anxious parents to keep children fail to win at the starting line, the age admission age want children to learn piano, hope kindergarten relax \"threshold\", there are only 2 years old children could not even have the music experience.

In response, music recommendations, 3 years child care\'d too early


Learn piano and other musical instruments. In fact, parents are no impatient child care at the age of 2 and a half to about 3 and a half, is the best age receiving music education. If a strong utilitarian skills to teach musical instruments, may outweigh the gain.


Admission age came, if they are registered


\"My child is only 2 years old, but he is yishuxibao. Baby when I discovered that whenever he heard the music, it will shake pendulum brain, can really understand melody and beat. Schools can consider in advance that the kids \' apprentice \'? \"Because the child\'s age into the standard, one seeking architect\'s mother in Pudong in Kong Xiangdong music kindergarten, repeatedly requesting teacher, hoping to unconventional accepted.


Reporters at the scene to see, although with the overcast drizzle, but kindergarten was ushered dozens of small-first consultation registration of students and parents. Many parents in order to develop \"music genius\", at heavily, even at the age of only one or two children, when you just sit, talk, began to contact with musical instruments.

This reporter learned that, while the kindergarten enrollment application there is no official start, already has over more than 60 parents come to registration. Garden party teacher told reporters, in fact, as early as two months ago, when the Park was also decorated by, every day many parents call the Advisory.


Within the three year old children best learn musical instruments


\"Children of 3 years, it is best to do not touch a musical instrument, in fact, as I am also began to learn piano until the age of 5 and a half. \"World renowned pianist Kong Xiangdong told reporters:\" the piano when children eye, ear, foot pedal, using hands and brain, is helpful for training early childhood coordination ability. Scientific research also found that good children recite, back in the future coordination of English words fast, memory is obviously better than other children. But I do not advocate within 3 years old child prematurely exposed to piano! ”

According to a survey Tchaikovsky International Piano competition, 60%-70% international piano competition winner of first Qin in 6-8 years of age, of which only one person, the youngest at the age of 3 and a half, in which small groups of about 10 years old. Therefore, the masters believe that enlightenment at the age of 3-6 on children\'s music, is the best time.

Game is children\'s work

Adults to go to work every day, in fact, the significance of children games also do so. France famous thinkers mengshan said: \"children\'s play should be not just as entertainment, but should be seen as children are the most serious action. \"Children need game every day, the game was one of the most important psychosocial needs of children to grow up.


Significance of games on children, first, by games express a wide variety of sentiments is the use of games to try to resolve and manage the second life have encountered in extremely complex and is on the brink of conflict. Adults can understand how children are looking at the world and explain the world of the game.


While the children were absorbed in the game, it is best not to unwarrantable interference. Because any interference, are likely to be ruining children\'s talent for creating. For children to create the mood of the game is the best thing parents done. For children every day for a time and a certain amount of space to let him free to play, with their own unique way of experiencing life, understanding of the world.


Toys are the backbone of children games, giving children their age toys is very important. Toys do not have to buy homemade toys are not only affordable, but also conducive to child development of creative thinking.


Proper active participation of parents, not only the children experience the love and respect from their parents, and promote parent-child relationship. Fun games for children in the family and human exchanges, in the future have a significant impact on the socialization of the child.

Kong Xiangdong advised parents: three years ago the best piano

Today is first day of the Kong Xiangdong music kindergarten Advisory registered in Pudong new area, enthusiasm of parents to children in the rain \"Apprentice\". Reporters found, some seeking art anxious parents to keep children fail to win at the starting line, the age admission age want children to learn piano, hope kindergarten relax \"threshold\", there are only 2 years old children could not even have the music experience.

In response, music recommendations, 3 years child care\'d too early


Learn piano and other musical instruments. In fact, parents are no impatient child care at the age of 2 and a half to about 3 and a half, is the best age receiving music education. If a strong utilitarian skills to teach musical instruments, may outweigh the gain.


Admission age came, if they are registered


\"My child is only 2 years old, but he is yishuxibao. Baby when I discovered that whenever he heard the music, it will shake pendulum brain, can really understand melody and beat. Schools can consider in advance that the kids \' apprentice \'? \"Because the child\'s age into the standard, one seeking architect\'s mother in Pudong in Kong Xiangdong music kindergarten, repeatedly requesting teacher, hoping to unconventional accepted.


Reporters at the scene to see, although with the overcast drizzle, but kindergarten was ushered dozens of small-first consultation registration of students and parents. Many parents in order to develop \"music genius\", at heavily, even at the age of only one or two children, when you just sit, talk, began to contact with musical instruments.

This reporter learned that, while the kindergarten enrollment application there is no official start, already has over more than 60 parents come to registration. Garden party teacher told reporters, in fact, as early as two months ago, when the Park was also decorated by, every day many parents call the Advisory.


Within the three year old children best learn musical instruments


\"Children of 3 years, it is best to do not touch a musical instrument, in fact, as I am also began to learn piano until the age of 5 and a half. \"World renowned pianist Kong Xiangdong told reporters:\" the piano when children eye, ear, foot pedal, using hands and brain, is helpful for training early childhood coordination ability. Scientific research also found that good children recite, back in the future coordination of English words fast, memory is obviously better than other children. But I do not advocate within 3 years old child prematurely exposed to piano! ”

According to a survey Tchaikovsky International Piano competition, 60%-70% international piano competition winner of first Qin in 6-8 years of age, of which only one person, the youngest at the age of 3 and a half, in which small groups of about 10 years old. Therefore, the masters believe that enlightenment at the age of 3-6 on children\'s music, is the best time.

Ask questions, first of all to respect children

Question, is the understanding of the child, parents and their children important ways to communicate. But how to \"ask\", a bit of care and the arts.


\"Good question\" to \"say hello\"


There are some \"good asking\" parents: children write a letter, to ask who is addressed to; is a man or a woman; some subjects in the school quiz, ask several of the top, is progress or regression; children asked not out here, but also to ask the child\'s teacher, to the child\'s classmates about. This \"good question\" subjectively is out of concern for children, but ask too much too small, it will make children feel their parents always look over their shoulders, there is no trust, easily lead to children\'s disgust.


Notes, small children, also has its own world, parents \"force\" it too tightly can cause children to assert their awareness of the territory of a party, thus unwilling to put all cards on the table with their parents. Moreover, the children are tired of the course of the day, when the parents get home from work and, when it is physically and mentally tired, they need is their warm greetings, it makes them feel their parents \' concern and trust. With trust, children will talk about.


\"Questions and answers\" for \"question and answer\"


Many parents always consciously or consciously express the condescending attitude: I\'m a parent, I ask you, you have to answer. So easy to let your children create a \"trial\" a sense of inequality. Especially children had secondary school, independent awareness, in the case of interrogation of parents, children vulnerable to lies, lies to deal with. Smart parents guide their children take the initiative \"q\" parents, and parents in \"answer\" timely guidance. Able to do this step provided that parents usually pay attention to creating a family atmosphere of democracy and equality. Child students called about he went to the bookstore, authoritarian style of parents will ask: \"who come from? Of men and of women? You do? \"In democracies children growing up in a family atmosphere, may parents ask before saying:\" certain students went to the bookstore, you don\'t mind, right? I go by bike or on foot to go well? ”


Change \"ask\" for \"ask\"


\"How do you get back so late? \"\" Who together on the road? \"\" Why exam the exam so bad? \"\" Told you why! This is common when many parents are dissatisfied with the information or tone.


Under such questioning, timid little boy soon will overflow with tears, and encounter a little child of Jiang, the family certainly cannot avoid the fight. In any case, parents need to understand the real situation but difficult. In fact, the same thing and put on \"is not the case,\" \"say good reasons\" discussed, such as tone, will make the children happy to communicate with parents, even if the child is made a mistake, will step down, to active his or his remorse.


Change \"asked\" to \"song asking\"


Some parents tend to go straight to \"themes\", what I want to know what you ask, tend to have hurt the self-esteem of the child. In fact, the \"q\" is designed to guide, gently \"q\" can often children of the waters, and \"q\" itself can also be a hint, a reminder, the expectation. \"Are you OK? \"Is a concern,\" this kind of thing you don\'t do it? \"Is the attitude of parents and reminded,\" my son certainly can do, right? \"It is a spur.


\"Q\" is the core of full respect for the child. Many parents tend to have one way of thinking, boy was I born, he has something, I asked him was justified, and rarely have, in turn, ask their own questions. To learn how to change \"he asked\" to \"ask\": \"did I hurt your child\'s self-esteem? \"\" I was so arbitrary? \"Get rid of\" total right of parents \"thinking, communication with the child will become smoother, education will also be much better.

Ask questions, first of all to respect children

Question, is the understanding of the child, parents and their children important ways to communicate. But how to \"ask\", a bit of care and the arts.


\"Good question\" to \"say hello\"


There are some \"good asking\" parents: children write a letter, to ask who is addressed to; is a man or a woman; some subjects in the school quiz, ask several of the top, is progress or regression; children asked not out here, but also to ask the child\'s teacher, to the child\'s classmates about. This \"good question\" subjectively is out of concern for children, but ask too much too small, it will make children feel their parents always look over their shoulders, there is no trust, easily lead to children\'s disgust.


Notes, small children, also has its own world, parents \"force\" it too tightly can cause children to assert their awareness of the territory of a party, thus unwilling to put all cards on the table with their parents. Moreover, the children are tired of the course of the day, when the parents get home from work and, when it is physically and mentally tired, they need is their warm greetings, it makes them feel their parents \' concern and trust. With trust, children will talk about.


\"Questions and answers\" for \"question and answer\"


Many parents always consciously or consciously express the condescending attitude: I\'m a parent, I ask you, you have to answer. So easy to let your children create a \"trial\" a sense of inequality. Especially children had secondary school, independent awareness, in the case of interrogation of parents, children vulnerable to lies, lies to deal with. Smart parents guide their children take the initiative \"q\" parents, and parents in \"answer\" timely guidance. Able to do this step provided that parents usually pay attention to creating a family atmosphere of democracy and equality. Child students called about he went to the bookstore, authoritarian style of parents will ask: \"who come from? Of men and of women? You do? \"In democracies children growing up in a family atmosphere, may parents ask before saying:\" certain students went to the bookstore, you don\'t mind, right? I go by bike or on foot to go well? ”


Change \"ask\" for \"ask\"


\"How do you get back so late? \"\" Who together on the road? \"\" Why exam the exam so bad? \"\" Told you why! This is common when many parents are dissatisfied with the information or tone.


Under such questioning, timid little boy soon will overflow with tears, and encounter a little child of Jiang, the family certainly cannot avoid the fight. In any case, parents need to understand the real situation but difficult. In fact, the same thing and put on \"is not the case,\" \"say good reasons\" discussed, such as tone, will make the children happy to communicate with parents, even if the child is made a mistake, will step down, to active his or his remorse.


Change \"asked\" to \"song asking\"


Some parents tend to go straight to \"themes\", what I want to know what you ask, tend to have hurt the self-esteem of the child. In fact, the \"q\" is designed to guide, gently \"q\" can often children of the waters, and \"q\" itself can also be a hint, a reminder, the expectation. \"Are you OK? \"Is a concern,\" this kind of thing you don\'t do it? \"Is the attitude of parents and reminded,\" my son certainly can do, right? \"It is a spur.


\"Q\" is the core of full respect for the child. Many parents tend to have one way of thinking, boy was I born, he has something, I asked him was justified, and rarely have, in turn, ask their own questions. To learn how to change \"he asked\" to \"ask\": \"did I hurt your child\'s self-esteem? \"\" I was so arbitrary? \"Get rid of\" total right of parents \"thinking, communication with the child will become smoother, education will also be much better.