Showing posts with label children. Show all posts
Showing posts with label children. Show all posts

3/9/11

Women would become stupid children?

From the beginning of pregnancy, they found that his memory decreased significantly, originally thought that after birth the child would \"turn back the clock\", but not only memory not come back, IQ also lost. Although not extremely intelligent, but the cause of a quarrel, playing poker under something, reaction can achieve the level of 4. But now, well sth Sad! Not only I myself feel is the key, former friends also confirms this. I would like to know, do you have this feeling? Have any good idea? Or only in this way?


I do not consider themselves to be stupid, but energy do not have adequate


Feel the baby\'s gestational age, and her husband called me \"stupid monkey\" in direct proportion to the number of relationships. But I don\'t think my IQ because of pregnancy has declined, down of a brain, characterized by attention is not easy to concentrate. If I can play 3 hours before the cards, and can only be guaranteed within 1 hour chaos out now. I finished work before go home to reading, to night after 34 weeks of gestation will only do yoga, and did not dare to open the car, as soon as I went out to hit their licences became \"layer cake\", who couldn\'t believe that I can shape into a licence, reaction ability decreases! But I believe that the mother can still fight for their own business, and at 12 weeks gestation I fly to Chengdu International Accountants examination test (referred to as ACCA, full English exams), I successfully PASS, was very happy. To know this account however ACCA examinations of 14 exams in the lowest pass rate in the world. Go to 31 weeks gestation I study English for titles, feel examination is very simple. So prospective mothers do not have to worry about their IQ is diluted by baby, he (she) just distract you part of the energy and strength, make you feel tired. --Hou Xinyu


After pregnancy, slow


Quite smart of I pregnancy during intelligence indeed decline has a time, told a classic of story \'s: one day a friends asked I \"three points water\" plus a \"to\" is what Word, I said \"Laishui\" of \"构词成分。\"; then asked I \"three points water\" plus a \"to\", I wanted to has about, is seriously to said \"does not know, and no see had Ah. \"Each other look good pride! HA HA! More funny is that I really think that most people will react and me, go home and preparation of herbal medicine by the prescribed method after asking her husband, at that time, he jokes, said that as early as 98 have been asking me this question, I would say is \"law\", now, haha! I do not believe it, and asked her mother, colleagues, they really are not fooled. I want to be pregnant I getting stupid now. --Chudan


Should be the focus of life


I do not feel stupid, and\'s the only thing of concern is not the same. Before children, self is the center of the world, with children around the world in the future framework have been adjusted again, interest, pay attention to before things become less important, so sometimes things people hit the nail on the head, their reactions are not over. --Wind full sleeves


Not mental decline, is the decline in memory of the


I did not feel stupid that is a bad memory. Good bad memory, is much more tolerant. --Little diffraction mother


Is the long out of society


Since the health of babies after doing full-time mother at home, feeling less memory used, there are things to be a long time to remember, but reactions also slow many of the hands and feet, or more exposure to social Ah! --Micro-fragrant small Jasmine


Forget happy


Yesterday I was in the very important things on the road, halfway up, went down to see. Using the run, something lost, I\'m sweating will lose a lot of fat. I gave it 6 months, I forget the matter is very serious, there will be 3, 4 times a day on average. But I\'m very optimistic, it\'s no use me, forget is forgotten! So happy to forget it! Do not forget to also maybe some day! ——barbara


Information line


According to United Kingdom of the Sun newspaper reported that under a period of five years of research findings: children does make mother\'s intelligence is affected, and the father of intelligence will decline. Researchers first plans to children of couple\'s IQ was tested, and then in 6 months after they first child once again test their IQ. Found couple of IQ has decreased greatly, especially their objective and sharp decline in the ability to think.


Study group tested on 173 couples, all couples in the second test of IQ scores are declining, most people are less by 20 points or more. Researchers speculate that psychological causes is likely to be a father and mother of intellectual decline, rather than physiological causes. The research groups will continue their studies, so as to identify when a child growing up, MOM and Dad\'s intelligence will be restored.

Women would become stupid children?

From the beginning of pregnancy, they found that his memory decreased significantly, originally thought that after birth the child would \"turn back the clock\", but not only memory not come back, IQ also lost. Although not extremely intelligent, but the cause of a quarrel, playing poker under something, reaction can achieve the level of 4. But now, well sth Sad! Not only I myself feel is the key, former friends also confirms this. I would like to know, do you have this feeling? Have any good idea? Or only in this way?


I do not consider themselves to be stupid, but energy do not have adequate


Feel the baby\'s gestational age, and her husband called me \"stupid monkey\" in direct proportion to the number of relationships. But I don\'t think my IQ because of pregnancy has declined, down of a brain, characterized by attention is not easy to concentrate. If I can play 3 hours before the cards, and can only be guaranteed within 1 hour chaos out now. I finished work before go home to reading, to night after 34 weeks of gestation will only do yoga, and did not dare to open the car, as soon as I went out to hit their licences became \"layer cake\", who couldn\'t believe that I can shape into a licence, reaction ability decreases! But I believe that the mother can still fight for their own business, and at 12 weeks gestation I fly to Chengdu International Accountants examination test (referred to as ACCA, full English exams), I successfully PASS, was very happy. To know this account however ACCA examinations of 14 exams in the lowest pass rate in the world. Go to 31 weeks gestation I study English for titles, feel examination is very simple. So prospective mothers do not have to worry about their IQ is diluted by baby, he (she) just distract you part of the energy and strength, make you feel tired. --Hou Xinyu


After pregnancy, slow


Quite smart of I pregnancy during intelligence indeed decline has a time, told a classic of story \'s: one day a friends asked I \"three points water\" plus a \"to\" is what Word, I said \"Laishui\" of \"构词成分。\"; then asked I \"three points water\" plus a \"to\", I wanted to has about, is seriously to said \"does not know, and no see had Ah. \"Each other look good pride! HA HA! More funny is that I really think that most people will react and me, go home and preparation of herbal medicine by the prescribed method after asking her husband, at that time, he jokes, said that as early as 98 have been asking me this question, I would say is \"law\", now, haha! I do not believe it, and asked her mother, colleagues, they really are not fooled. I want to be pregnant I getting stupid now. --Chudan


Should be the focus of life


I do not feel stupid, and\'s the only thing of concern is not the same. Before children, self is the center of the world, with children around the world in the future framework have been adjusted again, interest, pay attention to before things become less important, so sometimes things people hit the nail on the head, their reactions are not over. --Wind full sleeves


Not mental decline, is the decline in memory of the


I did not feel stupid that is a bad memory. Good bad memory, is much more tolerant. --Little diffraction mother


Is the long out of society


Since the health of babies after doing full-time mother at home, feeling less memory used, there are things to be a long time to remember, but reactions also slow many of the hands and feet, or more exposure to social Ah! --Micro-fragrant small Jasmine


Forget happy


Yesterday I was in the very important things on the road, halfway up, went down to see. Using the run, something lost, I\'m sweating will lose a lot of fat. I gave it 6 months, I forget the matter is very serious, there will be 3, 4 times a day on average. But I\'m very optimistic, it\'s no use me, forget is forgotten! So happy to forget it! Do not forget to also maybe some day! ——barbara


Information line


According to United Kingdom of the Sun newspaper reported that under a period of five years of research findings: children does make mother\'s intelligence is affected, and the father of intelligence will decline. Researchers first plans to children of couple\'s IQ was tested, and then in 6 months after they first child once again test their IQ. Found couple of IQ has decreased greatly, especially their objective and sharp decline in the ability to think.


Study group tested on 173 couples, all couples in the second test of IQ scores are declining, most people are less by 20 points or more. Researchers speculate that psychological causes is likely to be a father and mother of intellectual decline, rather than physiological causes. The research groups will continue their studies, so as to identify when a child growing up, MOM and Dad\'s intelligence will be restored.

Psychology of the elderly people with children to speak

Now most of the young parents after the birth the child take the child to the elderly with, older people are willing to nurture baby Sun (female), however, some elderly people because too love child, doting, to monopolize everything. Some kids got a big, slightly unhappy wept; daily living than poor, develop a lot of bad habits, to school, cannot meet the needs of teachers and, more importantly is, some elderly people do not understand the child in body and mind in the process of training and psychological development of children missed some critical period. Therefore, older people with children to pay attention to psychology.


Psychologists study found that mental development of infants and young children into gross motor, fine motor, adaptive capacity, linguistic and social behavior in five aspects. Therefore, children not only his drinking don\'t cry is not filled, should focus on child\'s mental training. First, in the area of training, children 1 month, you can let the child lying in bed, practicing briefly looked up action. Two months short of practice when a child\'s head erect. Let the child lies with the practice in the chest at 3 months leave bed. Practice head upright at 4 months. 5 months, help children practice turning over. Practice when a child is lying arm support 6 months, leaving the bed of chest and abdomen, and turned over. Practice to sit at 7 months. Practice crawling at 8 months. 12 months exercise walking. When the 18-month run, exercise balance at 30 months, up and down stairs, jumping, climbing movement, threw short and passwords do gymnastic movements, etc.


Second, in fine action of training aspects, 1-3 months Shi exercises children of caught hold action; 4-7 months Shi exercises seize and crawl action; 6-7 months Shi exercises to lane action; 7-8 months Shi exercises change hands action; 8-12 months Shi exercises with thumb and index finger on pinch of action; 15 months Hou training children of take building blocks, and turned book, and hold pen, and wear buckle action; 24 months Hou training origami, and puzzle, and with chopsticks, action.


Third, in adaptation ability aspects, 1-4 months training children of Visual and auditory reaction, let children with eyes track color bright of shake object, on children shake Bell, and talk, and singing; 5-8 months Shi, training children conscious to looking for object, and with hand Chase toys; 8-10 months Shi training children conscious to shake Bell, and on knock party wood, and from Cup in the take property, action; 12 months Shi learning gaigaizi; 27 months Hou learning awareness size and how many; 30 months Hou training difference color, and miles; 42 months Hou training awareness and recognition graphics,.


IV, in language training, within one year, to babbling says response to children, often with children, and talk to him, the exchange of feelings. If this is the bottle feed the (water), not opening too big nipple, sucking movements and muscle of the tongue to be training children. Teach children to imitate adult billing pronunciation at 10 months; 12 months teaches children when people; teach children to understand instruction at 15 months, and taught him a simple sentence; after 21 months of teaching children simple questions and answers; teach children to describe pictures after 30 months, teach children to understand an adult after 42 months of questioning and antonyms.


V, in social behavior aspects, 1 months Shi training eyes followed people walk; 2 months Shi on adults of tease has reaction; 3 months zhihou will and adults do game; 4-7 months Shi will identified relatives, see food will excited; 9 months Hou has is concept, not of things will shook his head, does not let he took things will understanding,; 10 months Hou understanding people or property of location and uses; 12 months Hou learning wear de clothes; 18 months Hou learning control obey the; 21 months Hou learning made personal need and requirements; 48 months Hou learning repeat,.


In children, the elderly, not because of fear of risk is not let children climb climbing, children restrictions in bed or in the car only to; don\'t hold the child, to let the child how to contact with nature, many free activities; don\'t ignore children, how to communicate with the children, although children cannot speak; not to monopolize, to let the child do it yourself. Learned to use scientific methods for the upbringing of children, child to better growth. If they do not understand the problem, you can refer to psychologists, not opinion.

Psychology of the elderly people with children to speak

Now most of the young parents after the birth the child take the child to the elderly with, older people are willing to nurture baby Sun (female), however, some elderly people because too love child, doting, to monopolize everything. Some kids got a big, slightly unhappy wept; daily living than poor, develop a lot of bad habits, to school, cannot meet the needs of teachers and, more importantly is, some elderly people do not understand the child in body and mind in the process of training and psychological development of children missed some critical period. Therefore, older people with children to pay attention to psychology.


Psychologists study found that mental development of infants and young children into gross motor, fine motor, adaptive capacity, linguistic and social behavior in five aspects. Therefore, children not only his drinking don\'t cry is not filled, should focus on child\'s mental training. First, in the area of training, children 1 month, you can let the child lying in bed, practicing briefly looked up action. Two months short of practice when a child\'s head erect. Let the child lies with the practice in the chest at 3 months leave bed. Practice head upright at 4 months. 5 months, help children practice turning over. Practice when a child is lying arm support 6 months, leaving the bed of chest and abdomen, and turned over. Practice to sit at 7 months. Practice crawling at 8 months. 12 months exercise walking. When the 18-month run, exercise balance at 30 months, up and down stairs, jumping, climbing movement, threw short and passwords do gymnastic movements, etc.


Second, in fine action of training aspects, 1-3 months Shi exercises children of caught hold action; 4-7 months Shi exercises seize and crawl action; 6-7 months Shi exercises to lane action; 7-8 months Shi exercises change hands action; 8-12 months Shi exercises with thumb and index finger on pinch of action; 15 months Hou training children of take building blocks, and turned book, and hold pen, and wear buckle action; 24 months Hou training origami, and puzzle, and with chopsticks, action.


Third, in adaptation ability aspects, 1-4 months training children of Visual and auditory reaction, let children with eyes track color bright of shake object, on children shake Bell, and talk, and singing; 5-8 months Shi, training children conscious to looking for object, and with hand Chase toys; 8-10 months Shi training children conscious to shake Bell, and on knock party wood, and from Cup in the take property, action; 12 months Shi learning gaigaizi; 27 months Hou learning awareness size and how many; 30 months Hou training difference color, and miles; 42 months Hou training awareness and recognition graphics,.


IV, in language training, within one year, to babbling says response to children, often with children, and talk to him, the exchange of feelings. If this is the bottle feed the (water), not opening too big nipple, sucking movements and muscle of the tongue to be training children. Teach children to imitate adult billing pronunciation at 10 months; 12 months teaches children when people; teach children to understand instruction at 15 months, and taught him a simple sentence; after 21 months of teaching children simple questions and answers; teach children to describe pictures after 30 months, teach children to understand an adult after 42 months of questioning and antonyms.


V, in social behavior aspects, 1 months Shi training eyes followed people walk; 2 months Shi on adults of tease has reaction; 3 months zhihou will and adults do game; 4-7 months Shi will identified relatives, see food will excited; 9 months Hou has is concept, not of things will shook his head, does not let he took things will understanding,; 10 months Hou understanding people or property of location and uses; 12 months Hou learning wear de clothes; 18 months Hou learning control obey the; 21 months Hou learning made personal need and requirements; 48 months Hou learning repeat,.


In children, the elderly, not because of fear of risk is not let children climb climbing, children restrictions in bed or in the car only to; don\'t hold the child, to let the child how to contact with nature, many free activities; don\'t ignore children, how to communicate with the children, although children cannot speak; not to monopolize, to let the child do it yourself. Learned to use scientific methods for the upbringing of children, child to better growth. If they do not understand the problem, you can refer to psychologists, not opinion.