How personality training for child care?

Contemporary educators generally believe that without healthy personality, not the people. Is the personality formation of the initial period in early childhood, family, community, groups for children of every brand, will be identified by the adult personality played a important role. Personality training in early childhood, from the following eight areas.

1, the first of all, parents must respect the child\'s personality. MOM and dad to get along with children equality and more with \"discuss\" use less \"imperative\", encourage, less accusations, avoided public criticism and even scolded child, adhere to the positive education, children from small build up self-esteem, self-love, self-reliance, independence of character.

2 awareness, cultivate their sense of responsibility and enterprising. MOM and dad will do it consciously let the children of some of the best things so that they develop a habit of doing things seriously. Children encounter difficulties to positive guidance, better ability to overcome difficulties, enhance the consciousness of children ahead.

3, strengthen the sense of public morals of the child. MOM and dad to educate children in public places don\'t pick the flowers, not graffiti art, do not spit; dear old man, discipline. Violations of social morality to be corrected in a timely manner to kids, let the children come to realize the: good external manifestations of social behavior is a noble personality.

4, encouraging children to interaction with others. Parents should encourage children to participate actively in the kindergartens or schools of various group activities, children and the neighbor\'s child friendly, children learn to honest, fair, modest and generous attitude toward peer, and concern for others, respect the rights of others, understanding other people\'s mistakes.

5, parents should often talk with children, the children gradually learn to treat yourself properly, understand each other, to a reasonable understanding of things; children have had the results not proud, have a disadvantage not inferiority, with difficult mental quality that does not retreat.

6, MOM and dad should be in harmony, and affect the child\'s personality formation in their good image. If MOM and dad normally hard to learn, children easily formed study diligently conduct up; if child was born and lives in a family full of dirt words, children grew up hard to do not use bad language to insult people.

7, MOM and dad should do a child\'s close friends, and children as much as some social phenomena together using stories, TV and children how to distinguish between true and false, good and evil, beauty and ugliness.

8, MOM and dad should give children of the world and brave the opportunity. Avoid spolied Chile to kids, all favour. Conducive to the survival and development of children in the future, should consciously in several ways more exercise to their children, to enhance children\'s independent ability and capacity to adapt to difficult circumstances. Allow children to participate in physical activity, to send their children to relatives living in the countryside for some time, and so on.

Your child is what kind of character?

Studies show that children have many differences in personality and behavior. Child psychologists children\'s character (or temperaments) divided into four main categories:

(1) good with children. That is easy to adapt to the child, about 40%. Its characteristics are: personality more docile, good-natured, circadian rhythm quite specification, and excretion of urine has laws can easily adapt to new environments, interact with unfamiliar children can withstand the most frustration than sorrow, to embrace the new stimuli, changes have strong adaptability to the outside world, is dominated by positive emotions.

(2) slow-shoot children. Slowly adapting children, about 15%. Its characteristics are: slow response to external stimulation, characterized by mild negative reaction. On new demand after repeated contact slowly adapted, tend to take quite a long time to change from negative to positive, can feel comfortable. Such children are experiencing new things and will have a blue response to strangers or go to school, but after repeated contact can become better tolerance. These children are less active, sometimes bad-tempered.

(3) difficult to bring the children. That is difficult to adapt to the child, about 10%. Its characteristics are: routine irregular, particularly good; and sleep without eating patterns; accept new things slow, degenerate reaction for new stimuli, adapt to the poor. On the new environment and regulation to extend the period of a stranger. Any slight setback makes them angry and causing trouble on.

(4) the rest of the children for mixed character. About 35%.

Research personnel found, good with of children often thought active, accept ability strong, learning results better, social exchanges ability also better, teacher on this class children of evaluation also high; slow half took of children often performance timid, fear entered strange environment, adult Hou occurs psychiatric of comparison more; difficult with of children easy occurs activities excessive, and attention does not concentrated and impulse behavior, about 35% of children occurs behavior problem. Mental retardation in children, a significant number of children is difficult to bring the children, they are prone to injury in the first two years and went to hospitals (such as skin suture). After school the children is not easy to adapt to the school environment, brain response slow, poor academic performance.

Children\'s personality formation through the child\'s status, the relationship between family members in the family and parents rearing method. Parents \' attitudes have a considerable impact on a child\'s character. Parents honest simple, is children does not lie words, also does not waste food; if parents of selfishness is heavy, children also easy formation Lee has doctrine; if children often was parents of scolded, and playing called, easy formation cowardice, and depression and pressing of character features, in behavior Shang became does not honest, and cold and cruel; if parents on children doting and too compliment, easy makes children formation wayward, and pride AO, and Lee has of character features.

Parents need to understand the personality characteristics of children, special difference between children and other children, are carrying forward of the advantages of the child character, weaknesses to be overcome, to promote the relationship between children and parents and children age well. For example, for the good of the child, parents on their behavior is driven by praise or caressed to be strengthened; for slow-shoot of the child, the choice of colorful toys and melodious music interest them on the outside world, suitable for the amusing and the game can also make them lively. For difficult children, specially for him to create a quiet environment, avoid strong light interference noise and all sorts of bad stimulation. Adequate sleep is very important to children. Experts pointed out that despite the genetic basis of personality of the child, but their personalities are at initial formation period, plasticity is large, is not static.

Worthy of note is, we can\'t because of children\'s behavior does not conform to a particular specification would be considered a normal and pathological, also cannot be a serious and irresponsible of the behavior problems due to personal differences. To correct some bad behavior of the child, parents may use the following four methods to change: (1) is to strengthen. Using strengthening some of the awards, such as using cookies as a prize to encourage children to eat more vegetables. (2) to strengthen. Elimination of some unpleasant events, strengthening children\'s behavior. For example, do not play with fire, not stay at the fire, MOM and dad will not be angry. (3) kick. Removal means strengthening the role, had previously been strengthened gradually reduced. For example, ignore the child\'s cry, you can kick the child inadvertently develop bad habits. (4) penalties. An act with unpleasant consequences reduced. For example: scold children or children at home, they are not allowed to swim in the river without authorization. Children with special needs, special care and protection, send and early child care institution or school education.

How personality training for child care?

Contemporary educators generally believe that without healthy personality, not the people. Is the personality formation of the initial period in early childhood, family, community, groups for children of every brand, will be identified by the adult personality played a important role. Personality training in early childhood, from the following eight areas.

1, the first of all, parents must respect the child\'s personality. MOM and dad to get along with children equality and more with \"discuss\" use less \"imperative\", encourage, less accusations, avoided public criticism and even scolded child, adhere to the positive education, children from small build up self-esteem, self-love, self-reliance, independence of character.

2 awareness, cultivate their sense of responsibility and enterprising. MOM and dad will do it consciously let the children of some of the best things so that they develop a habit of doing things seriously. Children encounter difficulties to positive guidance, better ability to overcome difficulties, enhance the consciousness of children ahead.

3, strengthen the sense of public morals of the child. MOM and dad to educate children in public places don\'t pick the flowers, not graffiti art, do not spit; dear old man, discipline. Violations of social morality to be corrected in a timely manner to kids, let the children come to realize the: good external manifestations of social behavior is a noble personality.

4, encouraging children to interaction with others. Parents should encourage children to participate actively in the kindergartens or schools of various group activities, children and the neighbor\'s child friendly, children learn to honest, fair, modest and generous attitude toward peer, and concern for others, respect the rights of others, understanding other people\'s mistakes.

5, parents should often talk with children, the children gradually learn to treat yourself properly, understand each other, to a reasonable understanding of things; children have had the results not proud, have a disadvantage not inferiority, with difficult mental quality that does not retreat.

6, MOM and dad should be in harmony, and affect the child\'s personality formation in their good image. If MOM and dad normally hard to learn, children easily formed study diligently conduct up; if child was born and lives in a family full of dirt words, children grew up hard to do not use bad language to insult people.

7, MOM and dad should do a child\'s close friends, and children as much as some social phenomena together using stories, TV and children how to distinguish between true and false, good and evil, beauty and ugliness.

8, MOM and dad should give children of the world and brave the opportunity. Avoid spolied Chile to kids, all favour. Conducive to the survival and development of children in the future, should consciously in several ways more exercise to their children, to enhance children\'s independent ability and capacity to adapt to difficult circumstances. Allow children to participate in physical activity, to send their children to relatives living in the countryside for some time, and so on.

Your child is what kind of character?

Studies show that children have many differences in personality and behavior. Child psychologists children\'s character (or temperaments) divided into four main categories:

(1) good with children. That is easy to adapt to the child, about 40%. Its characteristics are: personality more docile, good-natured, circadian rhythm quite specification, and excretion of urine has laws can easily adapt to new environments, interact with unfamiliar children can withstand the most frustration than sorrow, to embrace the new stimuli, changes have strong adaptability to the outside world, is dominated by positive emotions.

(2) slow-shoot children. Slowly adapting children, about 15%. Its characteristics are: slow response to external stimulation, characterized by mild negative reaction. On new demand after repeated contact slowly adapted, tend to take quite a long time to change from negative to positive, can feel comfortable. Such children are experiencing new things and will have a blue response to strangers or go to school, but after repeated contact can become better tolerance. These children are less active, sometimes bad-tempered.

(3) difficult to bring the children. That is difficult to adapt to the child, about 10%. Its characteristics are: routine irregular, particularly good; and sleep without eating patterns; accept new things slow, degenerate reaction for new stimuli, adapt to the poor. On the new environment and regulation to extend the period of a stranger. Any slight setback makes them angry and causing trouble on.

(4) the rest of the children for mixed character. About 35%.

Research personnel found, good with of children often thought active, accept ability strong, learning results better, social exchanges ability also better, teacher on this class children of evaluation also high; slow half took of children often performance timid, fear entered strange environment, adult Hou occurs psychiatric of comparison more; difficult with of children easy occurs activities excessive, and attention does not concentrated and impulse behavior, about 35% of children occurs behavior problem. Mental retardation in children, a significant number of children is difficult to bring the children, they are prone to injury in the first two years and went to hospitals (such as skin suture). After school the children is not easy to adapt to the school environment, brain response slow, poor academic performance.

Children\'s personality formation through the child\'s status, the relationship between family members in the family and parents rearing method. Parents \' attitudes have a considerable impact on a child\'s character. Parents honest simple, is children does not lie words, also does not waste food; if parents of selfishness is heavy, children also easy formation Lee has doctrine; if children often was parents of scolded, and playing called, easy formation cowardice, and depression and pressing of character features, in behavior Shang became does not honest, and cold and cruel; if parents on children doting and too compliment, easy makes children formation wayward, and pride AO, and Lee has of character features.

Parents need to understand the personality characteristics of children, special difference between children and other children, are carrying forward of the advantages of the child character, weaknesses to be overcome, to promote the relationship between children and parents and children age well. For example, for the good of the child, parents on their behavior is driven by praise or caressed to be strengthened; for slow-shoot of the child, the choice of colorful toys and melodious music interest them on the outside world, suitable for the amusing and the game can also make them lively. For difficult children, specially for him to create a quiet environment, avoid strong light interference noise and all sorts of bad stimulation. Adequate sleep is very important to children. Experts pointed out that despite the genetic basis of personality of the child, but their personalities are at initial formation period, plasticity is large, is not static.

Worthy of note is, we can\'t because of children\'s behavior does not conform to a particular specification would be considered a normal and pathological, also cannot be a serious and irresponsible of the behavior problems due to personal differences. To correct some bad behavior of the child, parents may use the following four methods to change: (1) is to strengthen. Using strengthening some of the awards, such as using cookies as a prize to encourage children to eat more vegetables. (2) to strengthen. Elimination of some unpleasant events, strengthening children\'s behavior. For example, do not play with fire, not stay at the fire, MOM and dad will not be angry. (3) kick. Removal means strengthening the role, had previously been strengthened gradually reduced. For example, ignore the child\'s cry, you can kick the child inadvertently develop bad habits. (4) penalties. An act with unpleasant consequences reduced. For example: scold children or children at home, they are not allowed to swim in the river without authorization. Children with special needs, special care and protection, send and early child care institution or school education.

Xiong Ni tianxing kin, the gentleman self-improvement

Xiong Ni before participating in the 2000 Olympic Games, there were dropped and only experienced by the silver medals and a bronze medal. Xiong Ni 18 years old at that time, really appreciate the realities of the sport. Is their talent do not? it is not. Do are themselves hard enough? or not!, he thought, perhaps this is his life. He even don\'t want to dive. At this point, has supported his parents reaching out to his warm hands. To anonymous expression of concern by her mother, as always, love, his father told him: \"heaven and health, the gentleman self-improvement. \"Is short, but sent people to wake up. Is this sentence, with Xiong Ni gone through pain and failure, has been encouraging him to board the 1996 Atlanta Olympic Games diving gold medal winner.

Return of the Olympic Games, honors and applause with, Xiong Ni also offering its own apparel company, it is suggested that his overwhelming odds. But Xiong Ni of China diving in the clear, 2000 Olympic gold medal standings in China need him to join us. However, the comeback challenge is obvious. Tingxun for nearly a year, Xiong Nichang has filled out a lot, to restore State, needs to redouble its efforts. Also, back faces enormous social pressure, if fail, will face \"hero bear\" awkward. Critical moment, and his parents understand the principles of right and wrong, to help him withstand pressure, hardworking again encouraged him.

Back on the road to springboard is very difficult. Xiong Ni physique and good, high intensity training made him several Burnout, nearly collapsed in the pool, but Xiong Ni teeth stick down in his heart, patriotic feelings of burning flames, he only wanted to recover status earlier, defending the honor of China diving.

Recall their four times in the Olympic games won 3 gold, 1 silver and 1 bronze course, Xiong Ni filled with gratitude to parents, who encouraged him to unswervingly follow the road to you love diving. He has a fight to the bitter end, never give up spirit, made him round a dream for many years.

Extremely difficult, the hardest to overcome self-

Yang Xia is a Tujia girl from childhood \"small Guinness,\" said neighbors home House masonry, she can lift a 100 kg of cement to help. When the sports teacher\'s brother-in-law from the second she found her in good health condition of sports talent, seek the advice of her parents, parents answered. Since then, Yang Xia step by step into Hunan flew out of \"the Phoenix\".

In order to meet the full games, according to weightlifting level adjustment, Yang Xia must lose 5 kg of body weight, which can only eat less and lose solutions. The saying goes: \"man is iron, rice is steel. \"Mention Yang Xia has to carry out intensive training! train rumbling you can also put up with, but his throat dry but very tough. She sometimes hear water outside bleep, could not help but there are a few impulse! key stage weight reduction is one month before the tournament steam bath, steam bath temperature is up to more than 100 of such specialized degrees, each lowered 1 kg weight, steamed in there for 30 minutes. High temperature on the stimulation of the skin do not say, indoor air circulation, breathing very difficult. Once, she collapsed to the ground just out of the steam bath the door. Parents in the eyes, pain in my heart. But for the daughter\'s career, they told her daughter: man is the most difficult of challenging oneself, people can overcome self-, everything can be successful. Whenever the suffering heartbreak time, Yang Xia dark teeth, this encouraged myself. Family is her spiritual support.

Chinese United States Minister of women\'s family education

In 1981, I read last year of graduate students, Japanese courses class suddenly appear around a 50 year old wife. She be all seriousness, squeezed in between a group of twenty or thirty years old young people, professors read aloud, really interesting. At first I thought she just ignore time auditor, then imagine that she will always come to the exam before deciding she is to officially graduate. We called her \"Mrs Zhao.\" She is never absent, notes and is well written, so anyone who slipped her help. Until graduation, and they knew that she was the mother of Secretary Chao Ms Diana Zhu.

Secretary Chao mentioned, does not want to stress that she is Chinese in the United States Government the most senior person, you don\'t want to talk about her White House Fellow, Citibank or experience at Harvard University, but rather to let you know what Secretary Chao\'s family life. I believe that no successful family, it is difficult to have Secretary Chao\'s success today. At least, Secretary Chao today senior Foundation Washington, honor that precision, with their modest reserve and Chinese qualities, must come from her the special family education.

I use \"special\" is hardly a Word, as in the United States of Chinese families, can have a complete and strict training as her family had too little! Even in China, I believe not many.

Do you remember the beauty of the movie? Teacher blow whistle, children from large to small queues of picture, almost can also be Secretary Chao\'s home to see.

Secretary Chao\'s father, Dr James Si-Cheng Chao was hospitable, per guest, 6 daughters as long as at home, will come out and say hello. Their tea in a very respectful attitude to the guests, always with a sincere smile on his face. You can hardly believe that is particularly, when Zhao when dinner guests, the daughters are not only not on the table, and kept behind as we serve, pour your guests!

I was puzzled to ask Ms Diana Zhu, she said: \"Yes! We teach their maid to make, but that\'s not a train? ”

Also, their homes although there are Butler, children still must wash his clothes, cleaning the House. Adults of the reason is simple: go into extravagance, from luxury to thrift is difficult. Butler was asked to help parents, instead of helping children, young men fitting their own things, not too long ago to be waited on, otherwise it is difficult to learn to stand on!

Their few sisters not only cooking their own House, is to listen to the alarm clock to get up every day, catch the bus to school, go home by sister lead automatically to study, but also to share the home of trivia.

Every morning, they went out to check for swimming pool equipment, fishing out the dirt on the water. The weekend, to finish that occupies two acres of the yard, and dandelions weeds pulled out. Secretary Chao 16 year old sister has been responsible for dealing with bills in the House, the Christmas card mailing list into the computer, and to answer the calls in the evening. Also, I told you not believe, Secretary Chao door up to 120 feet-lane asphalt surface is several sisters at his father\'s shop, under the command of their own. Secretary Chao had in my career and life, the article said: \"we did not enjoy, now wants to come, everybody works together, talk together, is able to understand the father\'s good intentions. ”

Is not it? As her mother say: home, home, this garden is a whole family, everyone has the responsibility to contribute their efforts, particularly love their homes, feel that they are a member of the family home is their own, especially in family work, more able to realize and share weal and woe, to work together, thereby creating a common identity.

You know, also damage the driveway of the home, you and Secretary Chao sisters feel different because of our driveway is not your, you sweating, feelings: a how could it?

I often emphasize family relations, Secretary Chao is the home of real practice examples. They rarely open TV after dinner, parents lead by example, do not spend too much time in front of the TV, reading with mothers with children, fathers dealing with unfinished business.

On Sunday, they must have the whole family to go to church, snack time after lunch, family meeting is held once a week, we talk, each child speaks his own new ideas, harvest, make plans and consult the views of the parents. So when we surprised when Zhao Jia Sisters of discipline and obedience, to know that it\'s the consensus obtained through parent-child communication between. When they do things for the home, not at parents command himself, but has a sense. Home is a co-prosperity sphere, each Member so the centripetal force will naturally thrive.

In 1962, Ms Diana Zhu with Secretary Chao, aged 8, and two sisters from Taiwan reunited with James Si-Cheng Chao set sail for New York, settled down in a Queens apartment room. Family in the United States early experiences are quite difficult, father beat 3 workers, mothers often worry about livelihoods. Secretary Chao started third grade, not an English word, every day she

Copy all the content on the Blackboard, night, hard working father of the day to put all content translated into Chinese, let her know of course content, let her not to confuse b and d, do not confuse p and q.

Hard work today, Zhao has had 4 daughters graduated from the prestigious Institute, Mr James Si-Cheng Chao became the shipping to the financial industry celebrities, even the Secretary Chao\'s mother is a 2-year full attendance record had master\'s degree.

But did you know? Zhao family although wealthy, most of the children into public high school, outside of spending or small, have to carry receipts home reimbursement. Secretary Chao College loans to the Government when, by summer vacation to work or money. This does not mean that her parents are mean, but because they require child independent, responsible, when using money in place.

Secretary Chao to playing golf, horse riding, ice skating, more play good music. Parents on their children, said: \"we are thrifty, but you want to learn things, not provinces. Just as said to learn, have a responsibility to learn! ”

They arranged twice a year the whole family travel from select locations, hotel booking, and the dinner at restaurant, full responsibility of the child, parents rarely intervene. That being said, this trip, not an organization, Division of training?

So I said: Secretary Chao sisters success, have a close relationship with their family. Even President Bush met at the White House of the year when Mr James Si-Cheng Chao a, emphasized this point in particular, said to his wife Barbara, Secretary Chao\'s parents should learn how to control a child!

How to pipe? The answer is: traditional Chinese filial loyalty and methods of organization management in Western society, both individual and independent personalities, more that everyone involved in their families, have a common identity through communication, reaching desired objectives.

In 1988, father\'s day, Secretary Chao has put aside the busy work, back home in New York from Washington, as Dr James Si-Cheng Chao holiday. May I ask, in China there are a few children, equal positions in the field, to get back home on father\'s day, to send you a gift and sincere blessing?

Flying in the childhood of Qin Wenjun

First time I saw Qin Wenjun, is children\'s literature in the Chinese writers \' Association\'s annual meeting of the Committee. Black clothes and black skirt, shawl Ufa, wearing glasses, somewhat scholarliness, and photos of her on the same, very beautiful, a Lady of great temperament.

Conversation, however, Qin Wenjun tells me, she was a child is a naughty girl. At that time, Qin Wenjun lives where there is a big garden, Garden luxuriant vegetation, flowers and fragrant, xiaowenjun used to go there and play. After school, sometimes in the campus, also in the thriving and flowers of the garden. Maybe is not used to school teacher of strict discipline and strict is a step too far, xiaowenjun is often skipped school.

Qin Wenjun\'s parents are educated and reasonable people, and is literary enthusiasts. Children they taught methods of unique: teacher to complain, said Qin Wenjun skipped school, parents and not as surprised as the parents that the daughter is bad or loudly scolded his daughter, not to beat her. Father xiaowenjun, the only peace said: \"Wen Jun Oh, you really don\'t want to go to school don\'t go, but if you want to go to school, then just skip class. You to think clearly, MOM and dad do not force you to do what or what not to do. “

Loose more than xiaowenjun think home school parents fun, so she really escape for a few days, \"addiction\". She linger on in the garden every day, wondering why green grass, flower why so red. Qin Wenjun temperament and writing is probably a bit of clever today benefit from this. However, after 35 days, xiaowenjun find partners are to go to school, left her alone in the garden linglingyi person, not fun. So she went back to school.

At the time of Qin Wenjun grade, for a class. In the eyes of xiaowenjun, the teacher\'s beautiful and gentle Lady, loves to laugh, never complain to students home easily. Start writing, Qin Wenjun wrote a paper on the composition of the snow, surprises that female teachers are: it\'s really you? Soon, this composition is to the Palace of exhibitions, the original literariness students from this teacher with admiration. Qin Wenjun to be special preference class and grant her \"power\"-the reading room of the keys to her custody, which greatly facilitates the reading of Qin Wenjun. At this point, be concurrently in charge of the unit library\'s mother also start reading books to take home some suitable Wen Jun, and told his daughter: to take care of the books, only good look good, are not allowed to damage. Xiaowenjun read with avidity, literature, science of sth And compared to the children of the same age, Qin Wenjun hardly \"baodu calligraphic\".

In 1971, Qin Wenjun, aged 17 to go to the countryside in Heilongjiang province, after the forestry worker for three years, she was sent to school to teach. She and pure like a white child everyone is by his mother and father a cell of a cell synthesis. Them to be closely associated, often just can\'t help thinking of his childhood, an utterance difficult to happiness ensued. That later after fancheng, Qin Wenjun and from passing the two schools, she would often stop to long stay at the school gate, looked at the flag-raising on the campus, the students, watching the boys the girls walked across campus. As if she was turned into the naughty, what little girl to play truant, pupils of the love of reading writing, that in Heilongjiang and with the children of young teachers in the school of sth

Parents understand that Qin Wenjun passion for literature, who recommended writing daughter why not write about schools, do not write about cute boys and girls in the school?

Thus, Qin Wenjun kept writing in the direction of writing was found, to write three or four o\'clock in the morning and every evening. A month after the first part ⅱ of the glowing fireflies come out, it is 1980. Shortly afterwards, Qin Wenjun and published a second novel the farewell, Xiaotun in the distance. Publishing House think this is a rare children\'s literature writer, she was transferred to the children\'s publishing house. Since 1982, Qin Wenjun while doing edit while doing writer until today.

First reader is the mother of Qin Wenjun works. Back to the Qin Wenjun completed will the script into the hands of mother right, and my mother always couldn\'t wait to take a breath after reading and detailed proof good, transcript copy clear, enclose a note of the paper packed full of views, send back on Wen Jun hand. Qin Wenjun works successfully, mother cannot be left unrecognized.

In the novel fan Qin Wenjun, there is also a Qin Wenjun is proud of her daughter. Specifically for her novels had a daughter-a ranking of the small as Lin Xiao-Mei, the history of a girl\'s heart, and the poem belongs to the young Liu Ge confessions of sth

Did a mother\'s Qin Wenjun, maintaining a childlike innocence and love. She bought a pair of small duck for his daughter, my daughter likes so much. For a duck with the mother and daughter were both lovely name, and fed on time. Winter is coming, ducks freezing, Qin Wenjun and daughter careful ambulance duck, with mild hot water bag warm them. Later, a duck died, another was brought. They wholeheartedly duck fat and alive. Later, the city cannot raise ducks, Qin Wenjun deliberately spent a day time, accompanying her daughter turned several cars, find a small river in the countryside, released the ducks.

And when the parents like her, Qin Wenjun guide also took pains to daughter. She felt the book was people\'s mentor, reading can cultivate one\'s mind, increase

Understanding of the world, she wants her daughter to read. But she does not simply say to daughter: How do you like reading, but his daughter through on the floor, put some children interested in books on the stool, her daughter behind. She also forgot the daughter at any time or didn\'t notice the book out from a pile of books, to a prominent place. As the daughter of long tall, Qin Wenjun book be placed higher. The seemingly careless move, cultivate a daughter\'s love of books. Daughter began to consciously boarding ladder looking for books to read.

Qin Wenjun said that are specific to the sense of responsibility, love story, certainly not dry concept. Cannot face indoctrination of children\'s literature, but humorous, relaxed, energetic, full of children-romance. Qin Wenjun heart always flying in the innocence of the world. She said she wrote the story of both sexes, like a pick up treasure into the cave girl, always feel that pick up enough, she often don\'t want to get out of the cave, didn\'t want to leave the baby.

We sincerely wish that the Qin Wenjun never full of childlike innocence and old, will never fly in a world of innocence.

Xiong Ni tianxing kin, the gentleman self-improvement

Xiong Ni before participating in the 2000 Olympic Games, there were dropped and only experienced by the silver medals and a bronze medal. Xiong Ni 18 years old at that time, really appreciate the realities of the sport. Is their talent do not? it is not. Do are themselves hard enough? or not!, he thought, perhaps this is his life. He even don\'t want to dive. At this point, has supported his parents reaching out to his warm hands. To anonymous expression of concern by her mother, as always, love, his father told him: \"heaven and health, the gentleman self-improvement. \"Is short, but sent people to wake up. Is this sentence, with Xiong Ni gone through pain and failure, has been encouraging him to board the 1996 Atlanta Olympic Games diving gold medal winner.

Return of the Olympic Games, honors and applause with, Xiong Ni also offering its own apparel company, it is suggested that his overwhelming odds. But Xiong Ni of China diving in the clear, 2000 Olympic gold medal standings in China need him to join us. However, the comeback challenge is obvious. Tingxun for nearly a year, Xiong Nichang has filled out a lot, to restore State, needs to redouble its efforts. Also, back faces enormous social pressure, if fail, will face \"hero bear\" awkward. Critical moment, and his parents understand the principles of right and wrong, to help him withstand pressure, hardworking again encouraged him.

Back on the road to springboard is very difficult. Xiong Ni physique and good, high intensity training made him several Burnout, nearly collapsed in the pool, but Xiong Ni teeth stick down in his heart, patriotic feelings of burning flames, he only wanted to recover status earlier, defending the honor of China diving.

Recall their four times in the Olympic games won 3 gold, 1 silver and 1 bronze course, Xiong Ni filled with gratitude to parents, who encouraged him to unswervingly follow the road to you love diving. He has a fight to the bitter end, never give up spirit, made him round a dream for many years.

Extremely difficult, the hardest to overcome self-

Yang Xia is a Tujia girl from childhood \"small Guinness,\" said neighbors home House masonry, she can lift a 100 kg of cement to help. When the sports teacher\'s brother-in-law from the second she found her in good health condition of sports talent, seek the advice of her parents, parents answered. Since then, Yang Xia step by step into Hunan flew out of \"the Phoenix\".

In order to meet the full games, according to weightlifting level adjustment, Yang Xia must lose 5 kg of body weight, which can only eat less and lose solutions. The saying goes: \"man is iron, rice is steel. \"Mention Yang Xia has to carry out intensive training! train rumbling you can also put up with, but his throat dry but very tough. She sometimes hear water outside bleep, could not help but there are a few impulse! key stage weight reduction is one month before the tournament steam bath, steam bath temperature is up to more than 100 of such specialized degrees, each lowered 1 kg weight, steamed in there for 30 minutes. High temperature on the stimulation of the skin do not say, indoor air circulation, breathing very difficult. Once, she collapsed to the ground just out of the steam bath the door. Parents in the eyes, pain in my heart. But for the daughter\'s career, they told her daughter: man is the most difficult of challenging oneself, people can overcome self-, everything can be successful. Whenever the suffering heartbreak time, Yang Xia dark teeth, this encouraged myself. Family is her spiritual support.

Chinese United States Minister of women\'s family education

In 1981, I read last year of graduate students, Japanese courses class suddenly appear around a 50 year old wife. She be all seriousness, squeezed in between a group of twenty or thirty years old young people, professors read aloud, really interesting. At first I thought she just ignore time auditor, then imagine that she will always come to the exam before deciding she is to officially graduate. We called her \"Mrs Zhao.\" She is never absent, notes and is well written, so anyone who slipped her help. Until graduation, and they knew that she was the mother of Secretary Chao Ms Diana Zhu.

Secretary Chao mentioned, does not want to stress that she is Chinese in the United States Government the most senior person, you don\'t want to talk about her White House Fellow, Citibank or experience at Harvard University, but rather to let you know what Secretary Chao\'s family life. I believe that no successful family, it is difficult to have Secretary Chao\'s success today. At least, Secretary Chao today senior Foundation Washington, honor that precision, with their modest reserve and Chinese qualities, must come from her the special family education.

I use \"special\" is hardly a Word, as in the United States of Chinese families, can have a complete and strict training as her family had too little! Even in China, I believe not many.

Do you remember the beauty of the movie? Teacher blow whistle, children from large to small queues of picture, almost can also be Secretary Chao\'s home to see.

Secretary Chao\'s father, Dr James Si-Cheng Chao was hospitable, per guest, 6 daughters as long as at home, will come out and say hello. Their tea in a very respectful attitude to the guests, always with a sincere smile on his face. You can hardly believe that is particularly, when Zhao when dinner guests, the daughters are not only not on the table, and kept behind as we serve, pour your guests!

I was puzzled to ask Ms Diana Zhu, she said: \"Yes! We teach their maid to make, but that\'s not a train? ”

Also, their homes although there are Butler, children still must wash his clothes, cleaning the House. Adults of the reason is simple: go into extravagance, from luxury to thrift is difficult. Butler was asked to help parents, instead of helping children, young men fitting their own things, not too long ago to be waited on, otherwise it is difficult to learn to stand on!

Their few sisters not only cooking their own House, is to listen to the alarm clock to get up every day, catch the bus to school, go home by sister lead automatically to study, but also to share the home of trivia.

Every morning, they went out to check for swimming pool equipment, fishing out the dirt on the water. The weekend, to finish that occupies two acres of the yard, and dandelions weeds pulled out. Secretary Chao 16 year old sister has been responsible for dealing with bills in the House, the Christmas card mailing list into the computer, and to answer the calls in the evening. Also, I told you not believe, Secretary Chao door up to 120 feet-lane asphalt surface is several sisters at his father\'s shop, under the command of their own. Secretary Chao had in my career and life, the article said: \"we did not enjoy, now wants to come, everybody works together, talk together, is able to understand the father\'s good intentions. ”

Is not it? As her mother say: home, home, this garden is a whole family, everyone has the responsibility to contribute their efforts, particularly love their homes, feel that they are a member of the family home is their own, especially in family work, more able to realize and share weal and woe, to work together, thereby creating a common identity.

You know, also damage the driveway of the home, you and Secretary Chao sisters feel different because of our driveway is not your, you sweating, feelings: a how could it?

I often emphasize family relations, Secretary Chao is the home of real practice examples. They rarely open TV after dinner, parents lead by example, do not spend too much time in front of the TV, reading with mothers with children, fathers dealing with unfinished business.

On Sunday, they must have the whole family to go to church, snack time after lunch, family meeting is held once a week, we talk, each child speaks his own new ideas, harvest, make plans and consult the views of the parents. So when we surprised when Zhao Jia Sisters of discipline and obedience, to know that it\'s the consensus obtained through parent-child communication between. When they do things for the home, not at parents command himself, but has a sense. Home is a co-prosperity sphere, each Member so the centripetal force will naturally thrive.

In 1962, Ms Diana Zhu with Secretary Chao, aged 8, and two sisters from Taiwan reunited with James Si-Cheng Chao set sail for New York, settled down in a Queens apartment room. Family in the United States early experiences are quite difficult, father beat 3 workers, mothers often worry about livelihoods. Secretary Chao started third grade, not an English word, every day she

Copy all the content on the Blackboard, night, hard working father of the day to put all content translated into Chinese, let her know of course content, let her not to confuse b and d, do not confuse p and q.

Hard work today, Zhao has had 4 daughters graduated from the prestigious Institute, Mr James Si-Cheng Chao became the shipping to the financial industry celebrities, even the Secretary Chao\'s mother is a 2-year full attendance record had master\'s degree.

But did you know? Zhao family although wealthy, most of the children into public high school, outside of spending or small, have to carry receipts home reimbursement. Secretary Chao College loans to the Government when, by summer vacation to work or money. This does not mean that her parents are mean, but because they require child independent, responsible, when using money in place.

Secretary Chao to playing golf, horse riding, ice skating, more play good music. Parents on their children, said: \"we are thrifty, but you want to learn things, not provinces. Just as said to learn, have a responsibility to learn! ”

They arranged twice a year the whole family travel from select locations, hotel booking, and the dinner at restaurant, full responsibility of the child, parents rarely intervene. That being said, this trip, not an organization, Division of training?

So I said: Secretary Chao sisters success, have a close relationship with their family. Even President Bush met at the White House of the year when Mr James Si-Cheng Chao a, emphasized this point in particular, said to his wife Barbara, Secretary Chao\'s parents should learn how to control a child!

How to pipe? The answer is: traditional Chinese filial loyalty and methods of organization management in Western society, both individual and independent personalities, more that everyone involved in their families, have a common identity through communication, reaching desired objectives.

In 1988, father\'s day, Secretary Chao has put aside the busy work, back home in New York from Washington, as Dr James Si-Cheng Chao holiday. May I ask, in China there are a few children, equal positions in the field, to get back home on father\'s day, to send you a gift and sincere blessing?

Flying in the childhood of Qin Wenjun

First time I saw Qin Wenjun, is children\'s literature in the Chinese writers \' Association\'s annual meeting of the Committee. Black clothes and black skirt, shawl Ufa, wearing glasses, somewhat scholarliness, and photos of her on the same, very beautiful, a Lady of great temperament.

Conversation, however, Qin Wenjun tells me, she was a child is a naughty girl. At that time, Qin Wenjun lives where there is a big garden, Garden luxuriant vegetation, flowers and fragrant, xiaowenjun used to go there and play. After school, sometimes in the campus, also in the thriving and flowers of the garden. Maybe is not used to school teacher of strict discipline and strict is a step too far, xiaowenjun is often skipped school.

Qin Wenjun\'s parents are educated and reasonable people, and is literary enthusiasts. Children they taught methods of unique: teacher to complain, said Qin Wenjun skipped school, parents and not as surprised as the parents that the daughter is bad or loudly scolded his daughter, not to beat her. Father xiaowenjun, the only peace said: \"Wen Jun Oh, you really don\'t want to go to school don\'t go, but if you want to go to school, then just skip class. You to think clearly, MOM and dad do not force you to do what or what not to do. “

Loose more than xiaowenjun think home school parents fun, so she really escape for a few days, \"addiction\". She linger on in the garden every day, wondering why green grass, flower why so red. Qin Wenjun temperament and writing is probably a bit of clever today benefit from this. However, after 35 days, xiaowenjun find partners are to go to school, left her alone in the garden linglingyi person, not fun. So she went back to school.

At the time of Qin Wenjun grade, for a class. In the eyes of xiaowenjun, the teacher\'s beautiful and gentle Lady, loves to laugh, never complain to students home easily. Start writing, Qin Wenjun wrote a paper on the composition of the snow, surprises that female teachers are: it\'s really you? Soon, this composition is to the Palace of exhibitions, the original literariness students from this teacher with admiration. Qin Wenjun to be special preference class and grant her \"power\"-the reading room of the keys to her custody, which greatly facilitates the reading of Qin Wenjun. At this point, be concurrently in charge of the unit library\'s mother also start reading books to take home some suitable Wen Jun, and told his daughter: to take care of the books, only good look good, are not allowed to damage. Xiaowenjun read with avidity, literature, science of sth And compared to the children of the same age, Qin Wenjun hardly \"baodu calligraphic\".

In 1971, Qin Wenjun, aged 17 to go to the countryside in Heilongjiang province, after the forestry worker for three years, she was sent to school to teach. She and pure like a white child everyone is by his mother and father a cell of a cell synthesis. Them to be closely associated, often just can\'t help thinking of his childhood, an utterance difficult to happiness ensued. That later after fancheng, Qin Wenjun and from passing the two schools, she would often stop to long stay at the school gate, looked at the flag-raising on the campus, the students, watching the boys the girls walked across campus. As if she was turned into the naughty, what little girl to play truant, pupils of the love of reading writing, that in Heilongjiang and with the children of young teachers in the school of sth

Parents understand that Qin Wenjun passion for literature, who recommended writing daughter why not write about schools, do not write about cute boys and girls in the school?

Thus, Qin Wenjun kept writing in the direction of writing was found, to write three or four o\'clock in the morning and every evening. A month after the first part ⅱ of the glowing fireflies come out, it is 1980. Shortly afterwards, Qin Wenjun and published a second novel the farewell, Xiaotun in the distance. Publishing House think this is a rare children\'s literature writer, she was transferred to the children\'s publishing house. Since 1982, Qin Wenjun while doing edit while doing writer until today.

First reader is the mother of Qin Wenjun works. Back to the Qin Wenjun completed will the script into the hands of mother right, and my mother always couldn\'t wait to take a breath after reading and detailed proof good, transcript copy clear, enclose a note of the paper packed full of views, send back on Wen Jun hand. Qin Wenjun works successfully, mother cannot be left unrecognized.

In the novel fan Qin Wenjun, there is also a Qin Wenjun is proud of her daughter. Specifically for her novels had a daughter-a ranking of the small as Lin Xiao-Mei, the history of a girl\'s heart, and the poem belongs to the young Liu Ge confessions of sth

Did a mother\'s Qin Wenjun, maintaining a childlike innocence and love. She bought a pair of small duck for his daughter, my daughter likes so much. For a duck with the mother and daughter were both lovely name, and fed on time. Winter is coming, ducks freezing, Qin Wenjun and daughter careful ambulance duck, with mild hot water bag warm them. Later, a duck died, another was brought. They wholeheartedly duck fat and alive. Later, the city cannot raise ducks, Qin Wenjun deliberately spent a day time, accompanying her daughter turned several cars, find a small river in the countryside, released the ducks.

And when the parents like her, Qin Wenjun guide also took pains to daughter. She felt the book was people\'s mentor, reading can cultivate one\'s mind, increase

Understanding of the world, she wants her daughter to read. But she does not simply say to daughter: How do you like reading, but his daughter through on the floor, put some children interested in books on the stool, her daughter behind. She also forgot the daughter at any time or didn\'t notice the book out from a pile of books, to a prominent place. As the daughter of long tall, Qin Wenjun book be placed higher. The seemingly careless move, cultivate a daughter\'s love of books. Daughter began to consciously boarding ladder looking for books to read.

Qin Wenjun said that are specific to the sense of responsibility, love story, certainly not dry concept. Cannot face indoctrination of children\'s literature, but humorous, relaxed, energetic, full of children-romance. Qin Wenjun heart always flying in the innocence of the world. She said she wrote the story of both sexes, like a pick up treasure into the cave girl, always feel that pick up enough, she often don\'t want to get out of the cave, didn\'t want to leave the baby.

We sincerely wish that the Qin Wenjun never full of childlike innocence and old, will never fly in a world of innocence.