When children cry

When children cry, we are upset. In our view, cry of the child means that we do parents of incompetence. We think it will go away as long as the stop the cry of the children in trouble.

When children started crying, maybe we change the practice of adjusting the emotions of a child can play a role. As long as we stay in the child side listened to him, does not interrupt his cry, his troubles with the crying gradually dissipate, crying will stop as well. Reason: cry to heal trauma. Because you give your child the opportunity to own the exclusion sense of hurt, then he will become stronger and more confident.

Listening is an effective means, can it trouble into their children\'s opportunities to gain self-confidence. Listen for your cooperation with the children. When he tried to eliminate his bad mood, you have to stay by his side, provided the necessary support, makes him in at the end of the whole process, renewed confidence and hope. So when the children began to cry, we should stop on hand to listen to him, does not interrupt his cry to help heal children hurt feelings.

Listen to the child, does not mean you approve of his emotions, does not mean that you condone him. You\'re just helping him out bad emotions. Children in trouble not thinking properly only when crying. You can listen to gradually weaken the control of bad mood on children. Once through the listening process, children own sound judgment would be restored.

Listen to a crying child itself is not complex, very useful for children\'s growth, but it is not easy to practice.