\"Take it lying down\" little baby, finally grown into Montreal rampant small \"dangerous elements\". Growth in conjunction with your body, some make you feel confused the needs, aspirations and abilities. All this makes likes to control everything orderly parents start to feel a sense of frustration.
There are 12, let you know more about two or three years of a child\'s behaviour and mentality. Although you cannot change a child\'s \"live\" performance, but you can change how you view them \"different\".
1, the child\'s slogan is \"Let me! ”
Whether it\'s shoes, strength, is also Sung porridge, in short, many everyday things always attract a small baby, want to personally demonstrate. Two or three children began to have a want of their own thoughts: as long as he had just learned to walk, that he had a \"lone world\" skills. He felt that I could do this, else not baffle me.
At this time do not use your management wishes to, whenever possible, you should let him to do things, and don\'t be afraid of him to do wrong and to stop him, or to help him, and even replace him, so you block just a small Case, say something serious, will kill his affinity for confidence.
2 boundaries, one foot in, one foot outside the boundary
Although baby has a independent consciousness begin germination, but they can easily be some new situations and emotions got out of their wits, which is often at this age. So children need parents specifications for their lives, need to have a clear and consistent information, to tell them what you can do, what not to do.
Exist to provide children with a sense of the boundary, but at the same time boundaries should also be in conjunction with age, don\'t expect a 2 year old child can keep quiet in the classroom or library, it is a myth.
3, fussy are their proper names
Few parents not to worry about child finicky. There is no need to, which is two or three children of typical defects--finicky. They love to eat are bland: like rice, bread, mashed potatoes, sticky porridge, in fact, as long as the child can eat a little bit from each recipe, so he would not lack of nutrition. If you force him to eat a wide variety of things, the result is simply counterproductive. Children\'s menu is the most important nutritional balance, and you may wish to try from the color and style variations, all in all well!
4, all concerned
Two or three year old baby born with curiosity, and their understanding is far more than they can be expressed. Language skills once they begin to fancy up, he\'ll tangle of questions to you. For example, small things will trigger a series of questions: \"why is it will rain, its cry? \"It will turn green and flowers, it did make me turn green? \"\" Flowers and trees also need to drink water. Where is its mouth long? \"\" Why you need to drink water, do not eat it? \"\" They will do and as we grow up? \"\" Why do they not like me? ”…… Sometimes answer children\'s questions will make you feel that life is something makes you surprised, of course, does not exclude you patience forced to \"desperate\". However, I believe this is the sweetest of experience, and you never bored about this.
5, children not only like asking for the Moon, and took
Two-year-old\'s imagination really surprise you, they can have their own way, and will be very happy you trust and understanding. However, when their imagination on the rise up, some of other feelings: such as fear, anxiety and nightmares also came. These tumble or must not underestimate them, when the children need our help. If a child ghost said under the bed, then told him that outside you kicked it out the window, he had to get to bed.
6, \"Jung pear\" nature of non-child
Two or three years of a child likes to play with other children, in Twitter, very pleased with oneself dancing and playing games together. But don\'t expect that they will voluntarily share toys, know how to share and not human innate nature. So you need to boot and tell the child to take turns to play with children, and not hegemony to grab other children\'s things, so when children will play with children, not \"game of war\", end up be wounded in battle. Then a quarrel does not let the children approach is enough--to each child\'s toy.
7, languages children civilization
If you can speak to children every day, tell a story, you would have to teach him some subtle language skills, and they, in turn, will help him manage his emotions. Children often do not know how to express the emotional language, instead he will direct action. He did not say \"I want\", but directly to Rob; he would not say \"I am angry with you\", he was hands-on. Want children \"not his fists\" gentleman, teach him to speak more, read more.
8, play-the-baby \"Bible\"
When children at the age of two or three, thinking that life is rendered by the endless wandering tour, consisting of sweets and toys, to embrace and love. They are used to feel very simple pleasures: out, ride a carousel for the first time, first time out for an outing. Sometimes you catch up with a two year old child when Montreal running, he would feel that they are the happiest people in the world. So they sometimes converse, wayward is also understandable, because a unhappy things may be a departure from his trip to the beautiful life of the imagination of doing nothing.
9, when Superman is tired
Sleep is very important to children aged two or three, and as important for newborn babies,
But he was able to refuse to sleep now. Parents must stick to the fixed bed time, of course, children will roundabout way do not sleep, \"I want to drink water\", \"to tell a story. ”…… Those as an excuse for delaying tactics common. But you need to stand firm, because the baby really needs a rest, and his energy and the body is not co-produced. Experts have pointed out: most two or three children in addition to sleep at night, will sleep for a while this afternoon, about sleeping 12-13 hours a day.10, time idea for baby equals zero
Two or three years of a child to do something is leisurely and carefree, whether it is clothing, still eating, included in the game--this can sometimes make in a hurry parents be anxious but unable to do anything. But the child is not possible to know how to seize the time, because he had no concept of time, on the contrary, you need to go into each of their activities. You can use the approach of the game: for example dress competitions, or before the end of the tape recorder of a song take off your clothes, of course, the occasional need small candy or a compliment as an award.
11, the children were \"self-discipline fans\"
When the child has been vaguely know what you like, you want to persuade him to change his habits are tough to blame: he is sitting in a Chair, with only a cup of water, and so on, yet the stubborn is the child of a particular way, he wants to begin to control yourself and your world. So you can do with him not challenging, but dispersed his attention, or to a selection of his other, rather than orders.
12, every child is unique individual
Each child\'s personality are different, these differences with their growth began to emerge. Your child will begin to reveal some special aptitudes, interests and personality traits. He is extremely well in certain areas, but there may be awkward in some other place, and these features all the changes. Children whether shy or outgoing, like sports like art, is not important, wise parents will let their children be what they themselves want to be the best, not what parents want them to be. For the purposes of this section, whether the child is 18 months was 18 years old is no different.
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