Every night, family strands before sitting at the table while eating, talking, sharing among parents and family relationships is a day of good times. But many parents are caught eating half an hour, not straight face to know children in school performance, the exam results; is oblivious of speech to their children, children caused by resentment.
In fact, every individual has a mouth, the mouth has two functions: first, eat, talk is the second. Eat everyone, but talk is not an easy thing. Say what? How do you say? Said well, table the atmosphere becomes tense and with gunpowder. Well said that for communication, sharing either close parent-child relationships and better communication skills.
Therefore, everyone should learn, upgrade their mouths speak in learning levels. First of all to say any more words of encouragement to their children, care, compliment, tolerance, honesty, humor, wisdom; less, not rude words, false, vulgar, insulting, defamatory, ignorance. Followed by \"love\" talk---equality, respect, open-minded, active, generous, sincere, more discussion, less imperative to understand the situation, listen to is the best policy, does not conclude, no rush to criticize.
If we are concerned about your child\'s progress and benefits, you will find highlights of children, build their self-confidence and self-esteem, mobilize the enthusiasm of their upward mobility. So in communication with the children, to the language used is:
---\"Great! \"\" You do it well! \"(Praise praise)---\" school, tired not tired? \"(Greetings)---\" clothes away, please! \"(Thanks)---\" I love you! \"(Love)---\" to discuss with us, what should I do? \"(Consulting) have nothing to say why some children and their parents, in front of parents with silence to parents of so-called\" education \"? It turns out that many parents use of language, caused a child\'s heart:
---\"No! \"\" No! \"\" Off at once! \"(Command)---\" you worthless! I see you have no hope! \"(Injury)---\" how good the people next door, you really make a fool of oneself! ”
(Down)---\"don\'t bother me! \"(Denial of legitimate demands)---\" stupid, useless things! \"(Evil)---\" I say you can\'t do is no! \"(Forced)---\" I you anymore, as you well! \"(The threat)---\" Please little ancestor come on do it? \"(Begging)---\" you do such a thing, really makes me sad!
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