Regaining traditional Chinese parents children depression puzzles

What is a good education become parents want more problems, \"before there\'s nothing that can be selected, provided what kind of education we have to accept what the State education, you can now select opportunities, I have to select a better daughter. \"Mr. Zhao Wei said.

Regain their doctrines home setting traditional family rules

Different and fully believes in the theory of foreign parents, some parents think that education in China was unsatisfactory, the root cause is \"forgotten tradition\".

Liu Fang\'s mother is such a.

In order to let the grandson less affected by the community \"unhealthy trends\" effect, the grandma at home has developed strict rules: when elders talk must not cut back, must be by the elders first motion of chopsticks when eating, daily watched television programmes decided by the elder sth

Grandma has collected in a variety of newspapers, magazines, articles and stories about Chinese traditional tutoring, often read the grandson, grandson also provided two Tang poems recited every day. So, his grandson was Grandma adjustable habit of a very cute children, neighbors often praise children manners.

But the grandmother of this return to traditional experiment, also did not get out of the House to have failed. Children are Grandma to train out of cute in a child\'s parents and uncles became dull, serious, there is no activity in the eyes, every weekend, Liu Fang will as much as possible to the children on holiday.

Now Grandma Liu Fang and children are more worried about is, they found the specification in the minds of the child has become a thing without any credibility.

Many experts pointed out that the essence of Chinese traditional education idea does have its parts, but what is undeniable is, then many of the education regulations are not established on the basis of full respect for children\'s development, it is not appropriate for modern society, no doubt.

Parents of children grow up is the biggest hazard education concept confusion

\"Do parents really difficult to the social transformation period\", says Yan Hong, Tsinghua University, facing rapid social change, parents themselves are faced with a lot of impact, they formed some of the values in his early years in shake also occurs at this time.

A retired old teacher said that children grow up parent education concept is the biggest hazards of unstable and inconsistent, \"education idea there\'s always lots of reasonable factors of any kind, as long as these factors can always teach good children.\"

\"In this period of rapid changes of society, shaken parents is also a process of growing up. \"Yan Hong said, parents are shaken, they see is the two extremes of things, when they found an extreme when you go through, it will run to the other extreme,\" for parents, more important is to find all sorts of extreme concept of fusion zone as soon as possible so that they will not depart from the living very far \".