Parents how to ease and guiding their children\'s attack?

1, keep in mind that children feel the love of you, in the course of his development, Foundation of the building he accepts you provides guidance. Feel love children of most of the time to please their parents, like parental guidance. Appropriate limitation on your child\'s behavior is in love with him one, like feeding, comforting, play games and responding to his needs are the same.

2, trying to figure out what the cause of your child\'s aggressive behavior. Ask yourself what had happened he attacked people--your actions or behavior of other people, what else happens in this case; maybe he is too tired or feel in poor health. To get immediate attention, refused him the thing or physical activity too tired, or even something else, often frustrated and angry emotions, resulting in aggressive behavior.

3, you have to know your child\'s temperature as much as possible, rhythm, and sensitive. For example, if you know the beginning of the day, he is irritable or bad temper, or he is tired or hungry fuss, on the control method, you do not take the time to ask him a lot.

4, tell your children in special circumstances you will do what he does or not, but for his endless lessons. From the tone and speak to you of what you said, your child realize that you are not happy. Essential for you to say you don\'t agree with. However, lessons learned and terrible prediction is usually long instead of products.

Telling a child of three, if he had other babies, you do not like him, this is unlikely to help children understand and develop her self control. A better way should you tell him to play another, pain of others also were injured. Say you don\'t like this behavior is the most effective information. It can help a child care that parents disagree is to remind her, you don\'t like this behavior, because you love her.

5 when you, your children and other children play, staring eyes, don\'t linger. When the children start playing when you wrestle or running and catching up or a toy, the children soon into the battle with each other, they need an umpire.

6, when your child in ways you don\'t like attacking other people, you have to stop this behavior, arrange something else on him. You can also suggest or help him start a new activity, perhaps led him to a vent attack emotional place, where he will not hurt himself, anyone, toys or the family pets. For example, in one corner there is something to let him hit or throw or can be used to hit with boxing. You can say, for example, \"If you feel like playing, to play your pillow (or hit the bag), but you can\'t beat the dog (or hit the table with a hammer). \"This opportunity to not only help children release attack of emotion, and helped him understand the behavior, there should be a time and place to be.

7, if time permits, demonstrate how to handle conflict situations between child. For example, if you have children, to avoid or resolve conflicts, you can teach him some useful words. Can help you with two year old child with a toy, when another child is trying to hold it, teach children to say \"no\" or \"I\" instead of pushed or crying. Children need adults special proposals and presentations, to learn effective ways to deal with disputes, than physical attacks and revenge is more acceptable.

8, if your children have language skills, to help him explain why he was angry. If you can guess which he does not speak, you said to him, \"I think you are crazy because you will be playing with Johnny. How do I know how you feel, but you are too late to go to. ”

9, ask yourself about your child\'s aggressive behavior, do you issue to your child \"information chaos\". When you don\'t like your child aggressive behavior to others, if you say \"don\'t\" or \"good\", he refused, so confusion mean to children developing self-control more difficult.

10, to remember that parents are important creators of behavior model and family atmosphere and guide, so your family, had better not in the form of attacks between members of the family to solve the problem.

11, consider corporal punishment on children\'s real disadvantages. When stubborn child provocative, teasing, manners or attack someone, they often cause adult angry. If you play or corporal punishment is the education of your children, you have to carefully consider what he learned from.

12, and give him time to wait patiently, your child takes years to learn to love and get on with others.