\"Good parent\" experience

I is one history teacher, Zhuzhou first session history learn science leader, current Youxian a in the principals, wife is junior high school language teacher, health infants a, named Jiangchuan, because 2000 kid 16 aged Shi to excellent results examination into Tsinghua University, many people think we tutor FA, dub we couples is \"good parents\", \"good parents\" as honors can\'t expect, is take this on points do parents of road, this is members concern of common topic, said said anyway.

Motivated to create a family atmosphere

Ancient cloud: A Good Infection, evil, families have ambitious atmosphere, on the child\'s education is subtle, can reach educational moisten silent realm. I family of origin are \"poor and middle peasant\", five brothers and sisters at home, remember that restored the college entrance examination season, I would like to participate in the review of college entrance examination, old old father said: \"either eat in the home, or reading, reading don\'t eat. \"To survive as a first priority, I chose to eat of course, gossip time to concentrate on work at a selected unit to review, in 1981 to attend private examination in xiangxiang teacher, 1983 graduate access to education in normal schools, after the qualifications obtained in normal schools, I was deeply disturbed, much more highly educated people. Therefore, I take teaching zhiyu, continues to learning, has specialist graduated, undergraduate correspondence graduated, on in I constantly School of when, wife also get specialist qualifications, kid primary school four grade closed down, because family in the I couples busy reading, kid also only busy reading, course kid some book read, single four classics on has progressive of four species version, Ruby four classics comics, and four classics comics, and Jane reading four classics, and original four classics, other various book also are is such progressive preparation, then couples wage monthly plus up does not to 100 Yuan of a home. Invests $ costs reached hundreds of reading to children, reading seeking ambitious atmosphere makes children develop good learning habits.

Building the harmonious democratic family atmosphere

Remember words said: we teach the children not only to let children know their obligations, but also to make children aware of his rights. In my family more clearly their respective obligations and rights, especially the children clearly, when we couple doing something wrong, say wrong things when we reach out to children, apologies. As: has once, wife dinner Shi, end with Bowl tour to neighbors home, children large called a meal mother: \"taught others dinner has rules, does not walk, you since has is do does not to\", wife immediately to kid apologized, and guarantee yihou no longer committed, course, children work wrong Shi, we also does not let, as primary school four grade zhihou, children skip read to junior high school, age smaller, and class Shang of monitor for a root branches belonging problem makes contradictions playing up, does not speech, we taught children to has measure, to active to others apologized, reason is simple, we said: \"Jiangchuan, you of father mother in school is teacher, he of dad mother in home, no people to care he, you to apologized on he, has a comfort sense. \"The boy searched the school, because of that Sunday, direct find the students taken a bath in the washing clothes when found, child initiative to apologize, but even the called number, reply to only the students, children home Dudu said:\" he looked like Zhou Yu, stenosis of air \", we praised his courage to not parent company take the initiative to apologize to the students.

Such as the above debate, often occurring in our home, by argument, more harmonious, more democratic, thus leaving the children more opportunities to express their wishes.

Exercise success education to their children, encourage education

Children 16 aged admitted Tsinghua, and year in Hunan province mark ranking 23rd name, was think he special smart, actually he and other children as, General was is, five aged zhiqian no reading Shi even number 10 a natural number are cannot number, number object only two and two to number; primary school a years level class 23 a students, he of academic row 17th name, junior high school a years level Shi mathematics teacher had worry he difficult to read junior high school second grade. But we does not discouraged, often praised he independent of views, often commended he reading can has since has experience, often commended he mental arithmetic ability strong, often commended he keep Board discipline, often commended he dare and people talk, often commended he dare to problem, course we not mess commended, as primary school a years level teacher told Cabbage Radish is vegetable Shi, he hands questions \"tofu is what dishes? \"Is reading high, sometimes he in class to make people laugh or cry. Outside of reading. Encourage plug his aunt home field, pulling seedlings, encouraged him to climb. Although I am a school teacher, but the rows of seats in the class to drew lots, he placed last, short craned to see the Blackboard, and forbade us to intercede, he also said other students want to sit in the front row. We are disturbed by the most before college entrance examination in May, his neighbor infection liver function test abnormal, a low mark, we still encourage him to athletes, students will succeed in front of just pegged, was that encourage education, growth of child physical and mental health.