How to deal with \"small Rove\"? Once in kindergarten told finished class zhihou, one mother on came to, wrinkle with frowned on I said: \"I of daughter do what things are special Rove, do game, and wear clothes, and dinner, activities are than age of children slow many, efficiency special difference, how with she told reason she are listen to does not in, only with she shout of when, she to fast is points, but Xia once also is as. ”
Being said, she is playing next to a girl called \"baby, come to the mother\'s side. \"Girls hear gently after he came to get close to us, she is very quiet, mother says:\" tell Lu teacher, what do you call? \"Only heard the sound of small children, said:\" Manchester Manchester. \"The mother added:\" I suspect that is because I gave her the wrong name. ”
Analysis
The mother and many parents have the same trouble: child action is too slow, do things move slowly, slow and unnecessary consumption of time, reducing the efficiency of doing things, especially clothes and meals, and other aspects of daily life, seem extremely Rove.
When your child is slow compared with peers, teacher there when reflected in the class, parents should have attention. Because the period is an important development in early childhood, slow children often appeared stiff, uncoordinated behaviour, effects of physical and intellectual development in the future. After school, if you do the job is too slow, it will affect learning, rest and good entertainment; examination when the action is too slow, often not done to the teacher rewinding time, resulting in slower performance motion when the action is too slow, they are often unable to win over opponents, let others lead, which makes huge psychological pressure on children.
Slow children\'s neural-types are often of a relatively quiet and slow, this is the child\'s life will not change the inherent temperament, parents for the child\'s temperament can only accept and make; again, some children born the atmosphere, more mature, look before you leap, ideas a lot in the process of doing things, so it will be slow because of the carefully carefully, but such efficiency is very high. To this, parents need to be carefully resolved to judge again on children\'s chronic condition.
From the child,
Not comfortable action is an important reason to slow, while the children were small, neuromuscular activities are not coordinated, so when you do things is very slow to do well, dominated the stand. As parents, it is necessary to help children often create exercise action of circumstance, so that children of neuromuscular are timely coordinated development.
No time for urgency is another important reason for the slow. Because children do not know if he finished as soon as possible after an event will have better results, he just continues past habits, he did not think slow is bad, then, we should set for children award, let children feel efficient things can get a good return.
For parents,
Face several aged of children, young of mother often was with let he own to do things, such as dinner, and wash feet, also than adult feed he eat, and help he wash came fast some, and more worry, more easy, but this to monopolize the precisely deprived has children exercise of opportunities, and, children also will therefore inert increasingly strong, no self-care of wishes, on own no sense.
Furthermore, action slow General is relatively of, sometimes children processing things of speed is than general people slow, usually is because up does not to adult expectations of speed, sometimes is because on adult of requirements no made enough of reaction, adult on will think own of children too Rove, but children may performance is good has, we previously mentioned of Mann Mann of mother is a impetuous, she is one reporter, she hope own of children and husband are meet own of work speed only will was satisfaction, otherwise on will complained, this is does not reality of.
However, human life is limited, do things move slowly, to be wasted much valuable time. In modern society, increasingly high requirements on human skills, makes it must have an urgent sense of time, work time and improve efficiency.
Countermeasures
1, the children slow, can be changed through the game. Parents can often playing small games with the children, the children of alertness, improve their actions in the game. For example, a competition to see who dinner, dress competition to see who these games can motivate children initiative. Children like to play, but playing more children might find interesting, then, to give the appropriate incentives to encourage children\'s \"victory\"
2, child and their own competitions. Parents help children design a \"competition\" score sheet, note the first time, and then record each day the actual completion time, than before if there is progress, reward, if there is no progress, maintain the status quo, or backwards, it does not provide any incentive. Parents can let the children first, starting from simple and easy, headed for task becomes more difficult, has reached the appropriate time. This approach, aimed at shortening the time required to complete everything, is a direct way to overcome slow. During this period, parents need to explain the significance of scores for the kids, desire to motivate children progress.
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