When it comes to \"Privacy\", people feel that only be a matter of adult, and children, especially child care does not have a common border. But Canada people believed that children also have their privacy, and adult society ought to respect and protection-
▲ \"Defects of shame\". Child care often such as wet that \"problems\" very sensitive, because they think they will make themselves in front of peers \"shame\". Both parents, is a kindergarten teacher,
Not be mentioned in front of the smaller partners, more appropriate sarcasm, combat.
▲ Certain mental disorders. For such as that they were suffering from or have been suffering from autism, depression, ADHD, and related to psychological disorders, children tend to be more sensitive. If the people often hang on the mouth, naturally not conducive to the rehabilitation of diseases. And even if the disease has been cured, in the presence of children is often referred to is equal to \"catch SB. on the raw\", also not conducive to children\'s mental health.
▲ Have faults. Some adults seem trivial \"has faults\" will also allow some children long-term resentment, so long as it was brought, they will have \"open scars\" of pain. These \"has faults\" might include: a game that he was the last one, a performance hit the pot, a picnic out of oneself, even as a child, crying, and so on.
▲ Experience by corporal punishment. Are beaten, being called, is stand and other corporal punishment was often a child \"no teeth unforgettable\" painful experience, was bitter because not only can flesh, soul or traumatized. Even children are rarely subjected to corporal punishment, but in front of others, frequently referred to their past \"history of disgrace\", still makes them into extremely embarrassing to extricate themselves.
▲ Physical defects. Like flat foot, color blindness, being small, too fat, too thin, small eyes, face and ugliness and other physiological or physical defects, although some are \"prescribed pendulum\", but mentioned from time to time if the adults also make children down. And even if that was a long time before, such as skin and bone at birth or look ugly, will let your child quickly.
▲ Small world alone. Small world of the children themselves were often very much alone, and see it as their own \"private land\". If the parents often without the consent of the child in its \"territory\" in the \"check\", in the view of children as well as their \"Privacy\" of flagrant violations.
▲ Saved \"secretly stashaway\". Young children although not like money, does not know how to finance, but if parents often go to the save the children \"secretly stashaway\" do \"settlement\", or even as their own, children will feel their privacy has not been respected and protected.
Vigilance is, to jokes, hoaxes, or force commands, and other ways to open your child\'s \"Privacy\" may make them psychologically feel a greater harm, although adults sometimes entirely out of intention, and may never recognize these \"trivial matters\" will also be the children of \"Privacy\". For example, to laugh at tone said a three-year old boy has a \"girlfriend\" might make him feel terribly ashamed. Similarly, forced child in front of others untied trousers show falling due to naughty butt before a scar will shame him.
Canada people generally believe that respect for and protection of children\'s \"Privacy\", by their very nature, is to respect and protect their ego. You know, self-esteem is an important psychological factors affecting the healthy development of children, if pride was hurt, they are more likely to have a mental disorder, such as psychological inferiority and confrontation. So parents and teachers must keep an eye on respect for and protection of the child\'s self-esteem. In life, adults and children present a Word will be used the phrase brain \"filter\", not just lip service is not intended to \"exposing\" a child of \"Privacy\", and thus the child self-esteem loss, which may cause serious negative impact on children\'s mental health.
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