Every child is King of destruction, the parents always \"ready, always ready\" status to meet the spirit of scenes of destruction can occur at any time, light is defacing a newspaper, you probably will not open DVD player. That is why? Here, give you a few reasons.
Ailun only 7 months old, but meat Michelle hand has only two lethal--picture books in the early separation, dissolution of the facial tissue, played tricks, ruthless method destroy the flowers. In the face of appalling \"crime\" scene, MOM and Dad can only be pleased to tell myself: daughter long skills! Because they know children have 1000 damage reason.
Reason: \"then what is? ”
Things turn out all in the fridge, 2 morning morning this white guy has no attraction for him, so he started targeting next target: my father\'s computer. Ambitious young man with a coin in his hand near the places on the desk machine. Haha, he found a small iron box on the floor surface seam, went to the coin!
Novelty is the power to explore the world of young children, in their \"research contract\" was only one sentence: Mastering the secrets of the world-they want to check all of the things they could not understand. And on their checklist, lined with what they are most interested in: various items of the father and mother. Explore is not a bad thing, but they are always accompanied by some other results. For example, morning morning the coin is now lying in the computer\'s floppy drive among the sth
Regardless of the computer is in need of repair, perfumes also are emptied of wedding anniversary, for both parent\'s patience is a severe test. We\'d significantly attack, but it is essential to keep should have patience. Because we also know that children are not deliberately engage in destruction, where they understand the meaning of wedding anniversary on mother, away to spend how many lollipop\'s money?
Well, since we cannot prevent this search behavior, you can only find a way to minimize losses. We can collection up precious things, for the computer or sound that is difficult to hide things, you can only find a way to transfer their attention, attract more fresh and interesting, they are more appropriate in their area.
Reason two: \"I am angry! ”
Mother says: \"no, you can\'t eat sugar! ”
Dad said, \"no, you can\'t play right now, we have to go home! ”
No, no, no, even the annoying toy baby also said it would not stand in the high tower above, always falling off the building blocks.
\"The disgusting! \"4 years of Ming-Ming in earnest toy baby fell on the floor, and then they also sit on the floor crying.
Children on the real-world things have their bottom line, so let him bear excessive refused, for he is very difficult. Temper is a way to express their disappointment. In such cases, parents need to stay calm. Most hope to get care after child bite, because they need to confirm that \"I was a MOM and Dad\'s baby\", so we are not allowed to violence for violence. However, we must also let them know: the temper of a pass is not damaged, so after the peace, must be good to put their own fall out toy pick came back and picked up.
Children have smaller free space, the greater the possibility of his temper. Therefore, parents in the child says \"no\" when may wish to consider whether it is important to deny the child. In some cases, we may seek a compromise solution, give the children some comfort, you can prevent a child from angry.
Reason three: \"I fail to do sth\"
This morning, mother for Berg: Lulu bag of milk from the refrigerator to get on the table. Milk bags some wet and heavy than little girls think, so Berg: Lulu did not go to the table, hand the Naughty Bag fell on the ground and broke, milk splash around. Mother flicker on the spot, his mind quickly calculated what to wash carpets. But her serious facial expression let Lucy of Lucy at the age of 2, and he cried.
Hear the cry, mother suddenly realized that his daughter was very uncomfortable-now the small unfortunate needed comfort, so I will not leave any expensive carpets, also is the heart of milk splashing in daughter\'s clean.
Such accidents often occur in children who, because they are very easy to overestimate his capacities. Parents having children under careful observation will help this: what my children will have to do? What not to do? If she likes to help my mother doing things, bread is more for her than milk?
And after failures occur, don\'t blow to important creature, we don\'t say \"look, you get messed things\" or \"Oh, you can\'t do this\", that will let your child feel frustrated.
Reason four: \"big people do! ”
\"Ah! Sth \"mother\'s screams coming from the bathroom, sounds like suffered a reinforced company of\" little strong \". Dad ran past, has seen 3-year old son face is innocent to stand in the bathtub with hand held ticktack piece of cloth. Then take a closer look, the cloth appear as a Silk Underwear wife love sth The original, the son after the bath, full of enthusiastically used his mother\'s \"soft rag\" to clean bathtub.
Children always wish I could do a lot of things like a father, and as clever as the mother, skilled juice, pushed in the shopping cart, put the key into the keyhole, and so on. Little guy likes to mimic the behavior of adults, and are happy to provide help for MOM and dad. Although they can promote the growth and development of children, but does not necessarily always bring happiness to the parents, for example, when 3 years old children confuse Silk Underwear and
When the difference between rag.In this case, even if you want to cry or shout, but it is best to restrain himself and give children a friendly expression. And then come up with a cloth demo for children to see, tell him what is the professional cleaning of tools and how to clean the bathtub. This process may be full of fun, it meets the demand for children to imitate, at the same time slowly went out mother\'s anger. When you are in the process of leading the kids to do the housework, after taught how not to destroy things, you can try to communicate with her husband, sent you a new lingerie as a gift for family success.
Reason five: \"way too easy! ”
1 and a half of Tong Tong really don\'t want to listen to the \"moo\" sound, the first electric toy cattle have so called hundreds of times. She would like to try to play fresh, so hold on poor calf into the kitchen, thinking does not know this guy into the pool which is what? Results, of course, one can imagine that electric calves did not learn to swim, but has turned mute sth
\"Oh, completely broken! \"When the Tong Tong toy cows from my mother that he wet MOP when bailing out of the pool was very angry because of this toy is very expensive. But she also understand that for children to understand the scientific and technological content and technique, apparently was too much to ask, and the little wet cattle into the dustbin.
Provide toys for children, need to be matched with their ages, which can cause their fantasies, but also strong enough. And when we send them on their toys, you should also teach them what treasure. For example, when 2 years old children want to try small puppets from high places jump down when we should let them know that, if the toy broken, is not new for him.
Sometimes, children\'s toys too much, that he could not concentrate on a toy to explore this toy should be how to play. Even if the play is broken, he also felt that it does not matter that, anyway, there are many reserve force. Therefore, the toy is damaged it is not surprising.
Reason six: \"I\'m here! ”
佳佳 obediently train tracks on the floor, his breakthrough today his record, actually completed and 2 of the 3 Tunnel Interchange. 佳佳 very excited: \"mother! Mother! Train track quickly came to see me! \"However, sitting in front of the computer\'s mother did not always go and see yourself.
\"MOM, MOM! \"Better sound better and called for more than two, the mother was focused on his work. 佳佳 quickly looked around in a circle in the room, seeing behind his hand and the money tree, a past-he knows that just the anxious mother, because she has said time and again absolutely not allowed to remove leaves.
For child care, about his concern as important as eating and drinking. If he does not receive sufficient attention, could be taken against the measure. At this time, the children even bear blame, but also to attract the attention of parents. When the mother eventually put down everything in the hands of, and at the cost of ground leaves, when children build a model of train tracks and loudly praise, may wish to reflect on themselves is when children most in need had given him enough attention.
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