To make friends and children

After reading the new era, what should I do after the mother article, the author very mixed feelings: this should be most closely connected, the closest the estrangement between mother and daughter, mother but don\'t know how to be good. As a teacher, I want to give the mother a piece of advice: to make friends and children.

Children Shang middle school Hou, as age of growth and around interpersonal relationships of development, inevitable will appears series of of changes, they will encountered many puzzle and difficulties, also will faced more need own personally processing of things, then on need parents to friends of identity to help children, and not to discipline who of identity to on children of behavior finger, otherwise only will for to children of escape and cheat.

Children high school results are not very good, there are many reasons. Perhaps poor interpersonal, perhaps bad study habits, perhaps children does not properly handle the relationship between and the teacher, may also be found in the children from learning fun. At this time, parents should communicate with the children, more exchanges, capacity as a friend to children some appropriate guidance and direction. Parents should try to give their children enough confidence and trust, give children enough to encourage and support, as long as they can find pleasure from learning, can rapidly enhance children\'s learning achievement.

Said in the text, children without permission from Bank 1000 Yuan did not consult with parents, after the parents find out children and classmates tricked mother. I think it is possible the child to parental discipline too strict a means for self-protection. Don\'t know my parents have never considered children have different needs, do children need parents to touch the wall? Or is it discussed in front of the parents of the child was no doubt that refuses? If it is to build awareness of children\'s economic, should be allowed to lend money to the child, or help the children find solutions, to let children feel that equality of parents is their true friends rather than of hostility or opposition objects.