Rational treatment of children

Now, many parents, the most energy, material and financial resources, is poured on the children. However, the efforts of many parents eventually may not always be able to achieve a desired return, sometimes children do become parents of heart disease. So, how to treat children\'s growth? I believe that:

First, parents for children to more peaceful and less demanding, treat children\'s growth in a normal heart. All parents hope that their children get on, as. But the one who loves you, all mortal beings, ordinary people have it. If parents regardless of objective factors, and always demanding, high-input, the result may be expected, the higher the greater the disappointment. On the problems of children grow up, parents do not give children too much pressure.

Second, parents should follow the child growth pattern, not to spoil things through excessive enthusiasm, limitless compression. When parents give their children choose education or to select an education suitable for their age, that is cannot cross can bear children in the age of maximum pressure. The girl in the text, 5 years, and he plays the piano, dance after classes, English classes, published articles a year, primary IV to write thousands of words of martial arts novels, first love story of a night to write 7,000 words, this normal? This is their age should receive education do? Purchased this premature development potential of children education children some sort of extraordinary talent, and parents are not aware that children may be at the expense of their own life happy. Once the child does not meet your requirements, you will not only disappointed, children may lose interest in learning.

In addition, parents need to be guided at the children\'s growth in the course of, not just for the kids to raise requirements, add to the burden, but not give them free rein, forget it, anything by him. In fact, the child\'s ability to distinguish between right and wrong, the ability to self-judgment is not enough, coupled with the social complex, therefore, cannot be separated from parents and teachers also guide.