Adults are known, most of the memories of childhood and was related to the emotional experience, sometimes forgotten memory contents, but the emotional effect it remains in the memory. Emotional memory is an important aspect of the contents of the memory, active emotional memory often accompanied by pleasant, meet, experience emotions such as joy, memory often accompanied by fears and negative emotions, pain, loneliness, emotional experience. Positive emotion and memory will have become optimistic and confident, outgoing and open-minded, while negative emotional memory will give different degrees of negative impact on people. Therefore, parents should pay attention to cultivate their positive emotions and memory.
So, how should children positive emotional memory? methods below for parents \' reference:
1, creating a warm and peaceful home environment. Such a family can make children happy security experience; on the contrary, a place full of stress and noise, lack of warmth and family, will make children feel inferior, eccentric, not groups, fear of contact. For the sake of the children of parents, it should strive to create a good family environment.
2, child contact sparingly terrorist evil film and TV, and books that when children when there is a fear of disturbing, parents need to give caress and comfort in a timely manner, excluding negative emotional memory.
3, when the children on audio when you are afraid of the dark, disaster, terrorism, parents can contact the stimulation of these things and pleasant, sweet, and gradually eliminate their negative effects. Parents should also through stories or examples of movie people are not afraid of the dark, overcome the difficulties in education and encourage children, making it gradually changing timid, sensitive, shy personality.
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