Did you pay attention to children\'s mental health?

One-child generation, is extremely concerned parents for children\'s health, but for the mental health of children, modern parents concerned about how much and how understanding?

Mental health refers to people of normal intelligence, good mood, personality integrity, can adapt to the environment, coordination of interpersonal relationships, which are crucial to future development of the child, mental ill health in children, the future is likely to have a personality defect and behavior disorder.

In particular, mental health has the following metrics:

They have a correct understanding.

Mental health of people, on their own strengths, weaknesses, personality characteristics, are a reality and correct understanding. Know what you can do, for doing; for impossible things, not demanding their own.

Have confidence in their spirit of self-reliance.

Mental health of people, would have clear life goal, self development driving force. Therefore, before the difficulties and adversities can adjust and control their emotions, calm approach and handle a variety of complex problems

Be good at coordinating interpersonal relationships.

Harmony people can take and friendly attitude towards and self-denial let people; in interpersonal problems and contradictions, can take a friendly and tolerant, fair, rational approach, easy to work with others and get along with.

Adapt to the environment, comply with the community needs.

Mental health of people, able to consciously adjust the relationship between man and the environment as a whole, not the environment conforming to their own, but to adapt to the environment. In any complex environment, while maintaining their own personality, personality characteristics on the other hand, also have the ability to adapt to the environment need, whether in hard in adversity, or in a smooth environment, are able to develop their own good.

Perspective on children\'s mental health, according to the study, following ten aspects can affect children\'s mental health, affecting the formation of healthy personality of the child:

First, the lack of the Wonderland. Because the parents divorce or loss of parents and other reasons that children do not have access to care and attention.

Second, the difference in attitude to education. Both parents attitude towards children is not consistent or inconsistent attitudes before and after, breathe cold call hot.

Third, the right of children first. Parents see children as \"little emperors\", every whim.

Four, often punished. For the slightest imposing physical or psychological punishment to their children.

Five, unhealthy temptation. Wittingly or unwittingly used bad behavior or emotional temptation children, causing bad behavior or mental.

Six, too demanding. Let children learn, make unrealistic high demands.

Seven, role confusion. Require children to play role commensurate with their age, gender, and is not, as men dressed as women.

Eight, craving setbacks. By suppression of response to children\'s physical craving.

Nine, committing fraud. Often children that lying, did not keep his promise.

Ten, parent control. Coercion of a child at his father\'s or mother\'s side, or attempt to control emotions and love of children.

As parents, concerned about his mental health, should be concerned about his health, as a parent, did you do?