In May this year, the Ministry of education, family education concepts-China Women\'s Federation jointly organized a report group, report group in the country tours 13 games, warmly welcomed by parents. Report group 7 members with a good teaching way mothers, their children each have distinctive, but without exception are all-round development, physical and mental health, good character and strong dairenchushi capacity, student. These mothers educate children\'s success is reflected in the quality education in family education.
This reporter interviewed the 7 mother, and individually selected 7 mother child stories, and share the success of family education experience. --Editor\'s note
Because child is the one-child, we always have a sense of worry about pampered children, starting from when she was very young, we are seen as an opportunity to exercise every difficulty, and sometimes even create difficulties for her, let her learn how changing disadvantage into advantage successfully tide over their difficulties. We live in good conditions, be regarded as \"Jiao\", but we pay special attention to not \"used\" children worry about making one of her little Princess.
Daughter as a child, all things that we do not allow, no matter how she cries do not give way. On her first day of kindergarten, like most kids, to find mother in tears. Because she was less than 3 years old, a year younger than the other children, the teacher a soft heart, sent her back home. I open the door and saw, teacher guided the daughter standing in the doorway, hurried made the teacher goes first, and then said to his daughter, \"the children are in kindergarten, not to the school, who also can\'t go home again, now you can own to go to the kindergarten. \"She cried toot, was so sad, I locked the door, he just kept her door. Daughter know my temper: a matter of principle we are young. Therefore, soon she would compromise, begged: \"mother sent the road back to kindergarten. \"Road for kindergarten only minutes away from our home, I really think picked up his daughter, dry your tears for her, send her back! But I know that if I sent her back to the kindergarten, equal to reward her for her behavior, she\'ll cry tomorrow, the teacher would then take her home, and then on the mother then sent her kindergarten. So I down, she said: \"good children its back mother first to meet you this afternoon. \"Daughters have no alternative, facing the door, a step backwards, flow my tears, all the way, walk said:\" mother goodbye! \"Until you see the House, and turned to go. After she walked away, locked up the door I cried one. Later on she never cried in kindergarten. Children only three years old, but I think an information was passed to her about it, is a human desire is to be constrained by, many things are not free.
Daughter as a child, is very weak, in order to develop children\'s suffering spirits, we did not send her to the once-popular \"eat bitterness summer camp\", but as routine suffering since childhood, the ultimate goal is to let her \"wonder in the bitter bitter\". I generally do not allow daughters to drink beverage, thirsty drink only boiled water, without even sugar. Once, his daughter said: \"MOM, you just let me add a little sugar in the water! \"I said:\" If you\'re used to drinking boiled water, white water syrup can drink at a later time if used to drinking in syrup and then will only drink sugar water. But, then, is not thirst when they are in syrup at a time you drink it? ”
When an air conditioning at home, not on her daughter\'s bedroom, she is hurt to cry, said to be practicing too hot in summer, needs air conditioners, school piano students in her class one\'s rooms have air conditioning. I think that she has a point, they moved to air-conditioned room piano, solved the problem of practice, but her bedroom still is the most stuffy family room. Her ideas are still not pass that night, I was at her bedside on one of the Hans Christian Andersen\'s fairy tales, in the bookmarks page, of the pea and the Princess, it is no longer the next day were instituted. After 4 years, once again we move, already have 3 air conditioning at home. \"4 3 air conditioning in the room, you use it, I have a fan on the line. \"Daughters,\" said piano moved into my own room, I don\'t \' The Princess and the Pea. ”
Mother and daughter archives: Wong Jing, Fujian Normal University English teachers. Daughter Wong thinking quality in an all-round way development, 19 years old this year, has been awarded a national top ten young pioneers, published personal portfolio, now attending Peking University.
No comments:
Post a Comment