Americans in education, culture, good quality and the personality of the child, we have much practice and experience. In the United States, in order to let the children grow up to be able to adapt to the competitive society and become strong, almost every parent does not spoil their children, from an early age develop their ability to live independently.
Cultivating quality
1, from childhood, infant sleep alone, without parental accompanying.
2, young parent infant months naked threw into the water, let it learn to swim.
3, when the children fall over one\'s feet regardless of their parents, let him get up by himself.
4, parents for a few years of their children doing domestic work, such as washing dishes, sweeping, washing clothes, and so on.
5, its own things to decide, their purchase.
6, when children see their flag, watched two minutes when you hear the national anthem played, the hand by Leo Sayer, sang the national anthem.
7, even if the family economic situation very well, also encourage children to work to earn money with our own hands, let the children themselves paid insurance cost or part of the fees and other costs.
8, the vast majority of children over the age of 18 make money read on its own. Some people have to earn enough money into the school, it was while wage earners while reading or read stop, with a dozen years to take a doctorate. Kids to think, to parents for money like this in or very disgraceful.
9, there is no habit of napping.
10, adults encouraging children to do risk sports such as mountaineering, rock climbing, tiaohai, children are willing to participate in the adventure.
11, on the money, who came from a middle-class children, on their own is also very \"stingy\", one does not \"generously\". In a Word, children don\'t keep up an appearance, not fashion.
12, parents generally do not give their children right to inheritance.
Understanding social
Understanding home address and parent\'s name, unit. Parents when a child begins to learn to consciously teach them identify their own family\'s environment and parents \' names and units through day-to-day training, possibility of lost children find no home is much smaller, and increased the confidence of children to cope with environmental, so that he will not panic. In addition, you will teach children some sense of walking in the street.
Understanding drug and understand medical knowledge. Families usually have a certain number of drugs in emergency, parents will teach children to read out some medicines, to get to know drug name, use and usage, so that both children have increased knowledge and reduces the likelihood of risk. At the time of taking children to the hospital, also teach children to understand the way hospitals so that lifting the child\'s sense of fear of doctors, learn to tie in with the cure, or himself to a hospital for help in case of accidents.
Teach children to understand commonly used small tools and safe use of the method. When parents use these tools, will tell the way child method of the names and the safe use of these tools. Also will provide children with some of the more safety gadgets, such as knives, scissors, small forceps of a hammer without a tip. Let the children play to learn, is familiar with the types of tools and capabilities, and use of skills in the process of developing the child\'s actions.
Avoid hurt by bad guys. Parents teach children to avoid the main method of hurt by the bad guys are told they must not accept gifts of strangers, not to go to the homes of strangers, not to please strangers to their own homes. Girls do not let people touch your body other than the parents, people encounter have ulterior motives when you struggle, must go to crowded places or to tell the police, also cried or ran to the nearby residents.
