Parents \' emotional feud, they raise babies are always looked very sad. This shows that although the new-born baby does not understand the delicate relationship between the parents, but they are sensitive to subtle changes in vigilance around. If the couple quarrel in the presence of children every day, will give the child what impact? Of course, babies don\'t understand why parents quarrel, what is the content of the noise, but they can learn to hate and hostility. They look very blue, this is a non-language communication.
Non-verbal communication including human expression, attitude, tone of voice and intonation of high and low, and so on. This information exists as a complement to linguistic information, is also very important. Birth to 3 years old infants, they also do not understand many things, they are easy to emotionally under the influence of the external environment. Therefore can be said that non-speech information on their impact was considerable. Parents often no reason to get angry at home, often give their children a peg, this easy to make children become timid and introverted personality. There used to be such a thing, a young mother holding her child to go to court request divorce, then embrace the people present for the mother and the baby surprised faces of the same piece of grief.
Baby has generated resentment and hatred of children, what grows up, is not difficult to imagine. Babies experience is the basis for adult mental activities and motives of posterity. Survey on criminal juvenile records show that most juvenile offenders in unfortunate family environment through the life of the most important of infancy.
According to the results for the psychological study, they know the effect of the non-verbal information greater than words. According to statistics, the total effect of the information in the effect of the pitch 38%, facial 55%, visible both the role of the non-verbal information.
Parental discord, and often causes family breakdown, which brought greater psychological damage to the baby. According to studies, infant emotionally upset after the divorce of their parents, they always use a variety of defensive way to deal with difficult situations after the divorce of their parents. Going backwards is a common way of self-defence. He wet his pants, reducing an infant diet, lost his temper and restlessness to express their fears and worries of the new family. They want others to pay attention to their suffering, to get someone else\'s care.
Another common way of self-defence is prematurely has its own independent opinion. In life, baby forgotten, lost loved ones, and abandoned them and the loved ones of the same quality. Some may say: \"baby can you memories so deeply? \"The answer is Yes. General about children 2 years old will frequently asked: \"MOM, Dad why don\'t come again? \"Or\" when did father work? \"So on and.
Imagine a baby way to cope with the situation after the divorce of their parents. The infant can consciously think about 2 years old. They often scenes of fantasy to create what they liked in life. For example, a baby fantasy before he can bring her mother back to divorce. When he was unable to achieve this when imagination, he may feel guilty, angry, frustrated and inferior.
In addition, divorce family infants in nurseries and kindergartens will be shown on a wide variety of special behavior in the future. For example, most typical characteristic is the lack of creative ability of the game. They often feel frustrated, depressed and angry, they become good strong, good noisy and restless, they love playing, even often biting Companion.
Snow and frost, family defects on intelligence and personality development of children had a profound influence.
Japan educator Suzuki said: \"today, after you go home, to look at child expression. On the child\'s face, you\'ll be seeing one\'s own life experiences. \"Baby education, do not have to do something different, parents love and harmony, warm, in itself, is the best education.
