Now generally used by family care of children, in front of frustration is often lack of defensive ability. To this end, the parents have made some sense, children grow up too well is not a good thing, they should accept the frustration education, otherwise once they face setbacks, often do not have the correct frame of mind. In the recently held a youth on the emotional intelligence training course, frustration education most parents attention of course.
A key high school reading junior middle school in Shanghai Song Chunyang father, told reporters at the emotional intelligence training course registration, he was to enable children to receive education of frustration, because he is a friend of mine had blood lessons---this friend is a financial company CEOs, daughter is a great captain, student, people are pretty. Once she was late for class, teacher according to the practice of the other students to let her out the door for a while. Unexpected was that she should go to the top floor, and then jumped down sth \"too just for children usually Shun, and have not received a setback is! \"Pudong elementary school students of grade four fuzhuoya of Lotus mother also pointed out that child is favored at home in peacetime, everything ran down her children on frustration tolerance of weak, this time for her to training courses, is to strengthen her tolerance, to make her understand that might be encountered at any time in the community frustration and adversity.
\"In fact, has suffered setbacks and many children in school, according to a national survey, 81% children in the school suffered from \' language injury. \' Therefore, for children, setbacks are possible at any time. \"On the course, teachers to parents:\" If you still don\'t tell your kids \' no matter what kind of setbacks, all your life, your life will never be the most valuable asset, so now, please use the two minutes immediately tell your children. \"Live the fun, parents dare not neglect, now make up this should not be missing lessons.
Fudan University professors and other experts on Gu Xiaoming pointed out that shangqing course is just a way to let the children accept the frustration education, critical needs parent was usually to communication with the children, to timely elimination of children\'s mental disorders. Children usually have a healthy attitude to avoid tragedy in the face of setbacks. In addition, parents can also let children participate in a work-study program and other activities, kids exercise has much experience of setbacks, to generate the capacity to resist to it.
