That said \"don\'t cry, stand up\"

Mama always said to fall to children: \"don\'t cry, own up. \"Here actually has two meanings:\" don\'t cry \"and\" own up \". Child fell, may fall hurts, so mother insist children don\'t cry, is difficult, not to cry is not a strong performance, its rise is the most important, the strongest performance. Mother insist is let fall children get up by himself, if he gets up, mothers also do the trick, because your child is strong enough. Then the child broke pain cry out, and what does it matter?

Crying mother lets kids have fun, but don\'t care about his cries and tears, this is something that children themselves. You can considerate using language to comfort him, but not his place to solve the problem, to let the children themselves came up with methods and found that their forces, otherwise he will have a dependence on others, and negligence on the ability of their own culture, there is no way to mature, the couse, he will really become a cry of the child.

Forced cry negative psychological development of children. Occasionally parent \"high-handed policy\", the child will stop crying parents thought that this method worked. Everyone knows this will have adverse effects on children\'s mental development. Because the child language development is not yet ripe, not using the right words to express, and the backlog of dissatisfaction, depression in heart, and abnormal psychology or behavior to show it. For example, become violent-tempered, even hitting, swearing and other aggressive behavior; and small partners hard to get, not gregarious.