Summer holidays, lonely boy strange

During the summer, some parents find children have abnormal behavior, as has been often cute daughter talk back to you, has always been the rule of children desperately broke things in his room all day, and so on to hospitals, they are worried about asking a doctor: \"children: what? ”

To this end, Director of the Guangdong provincial people\'s Hospital pediatric experts Zhai Qiongxiang said: in fact, encountered such a situation the parents do not have to worry about, this big collective due to the holidays the children left the kindergarten, parents work during the day, children will feel lonely, because children grow up, thinking of something more and more, that \' lumps of sugar is not crying \' days have gone. They begin to feel the world, began to find their own friends, began a closed packed into the corner of my little secret, are looking to other people\'s eyes and try to interest, thus making these weird behavior.

Caught in this situation, parents worry about children\'s aggressive behavior will become more and more serious, hurried to bring children to the hospital. Is this appropriate?

Chak Director said: when the best response is to remain silent. If the parents on their children have sufficient understanding and confidence, why should you care about children occasionally unusual behavior? Instead, you should provide your children know how to take this not too bad out way feel happy. Everyone should learned to emotional, especially children, their psychological ability is poor, does not absolve major principles to their own, they can quickly adjust the mentality, do become clear suddenly seems to be some seriously. The most direct way is to emotional break out, it\'s good for their physical and mental. Though sometimes their way some radical, you should fully understand. You need to do is not to stop them, and certainly not angry or violent, but that they know how to vent their emotions can\'t use others when the lightning rod, nor lose your head, to stop. As a parent to have a pair of sharp eyes, ready to insight into the child\'s emotional changes. When you found him down or anomalous, led him to find a good way to vent. You can try to communicate with children for heart and heart and dredging; you can take your child to mountaineering or more competitive sports activities in the field, allow his emotions to release; you can deliver on a long time for hope\'s commitment to meet his unbalanced mental at this time. Your understanding of gap distance between you and your child, you get along with each other is more harmonious, more enjoyable. When your child is feeling after you calm down, you will find he is wiser than before, also feel ashamed for his excesses, and tolerance of thankful to you. At this point, you then preaching in a timely manner, he must be convincing, not two birds with one stone? ”

In the summer vacation, parents in addition to giving children a healthy body and a wealth of nutrition, a harbour be sure not to forget children also need a soul.