According to a summer of children living in some cities of online surveys: child summer had suffered four \"but\": the school became a major task, activity limitations, lack of communication with the parents, not play with partner, with the result that more and more children into the \"caged baby\", depression, autism.
Third semester: summer change \"false\"
Summer holidays should be the child of a rest period and period of adjustment. But the fact is most of the summer holidays of children into the \"false\", children still did not get any desire for easy and free.
Although before the arrival of summer, sent an notice or appeal administrative departments of education and the media are: reduce the burden on children\'s academic, let them have a pleasant holiday. Layout of Nanjing was calling on all schools in the education sector in summer jobs, not more than 2 hours a day, to quantitative requirements the student summer job for the first time. But the reality is, this is still a summer day continues to be the prevalence of various types of schools.
Some hope that a son will grow up to be successful parents, as early as before the holiday begins busy for their children enrolled in various training or cultural schools. In some hope that a son will grow up to be successful parents \"operations\", the summer is becoming the year of the \"third term\". Many children into summer vacation means entering another \"battlefield\". In addition to the complete layout job outside of school, also against one\'s will to participate in a variety of interest classes, doing a variety of learning materials, hard level than when it is not a holiday gone beyond it.
A children reluctantly said: \"the holidays are parents! They never listen to my ideas, just let me know, learning to read English computer! ……”
\"Caged baby\": children\'s partner crisis
Although peer relationships as children grow up playing adult cannot substitute for the unique role, but I still have more than half of children if it is not seldom stay with friends in school. \"Not to others, do not allow students to our House. \"Many parents of this approach, have some of the children in the summer become a\" bird in gilded cages. \"
High importance of children\'s peer relations, investigation of 94% in children found it important to have close friends, 41% consider themselves to have 2-5 good friends, and consider themselves to have more than 10 19% of the just good friends. More than half of the children believe that summer is no company with friends.
Feel quite suffocated, limited range of activities, which are not allowed to, is the summer holidays of children living in the other extreme. Summer vacation time for two months, such a long period of time if you do not have the appropriate content to be filled, it is easy to make the children have a sense of emptiness. During the summer vacation, busy parents work, and left the same partner, not a variety of activities, many students feel bored and tired. Although many children want to get out of the House during the summer vacation around the mouth, but due to the impact of various factors, they are of limited range of activities. Playing on the computer, watch TV show children only of entertainment.
Many children have this feeling: always looking forward to the holidays come early at school. However, only a few days, you feel boring, than to go to school more happier.
Children need parents to accompany: give children some time
In the eyes of most people, summer parents should be given more time to spend with their children, but investigation revealed: many parents have little time to communicate with children. Although almost all the children want to holiday with his parents in traveling, but children have the opportunity to survey only 12%.
During the holiday 98% of the children said in the main channels, such as information from newspapers, television, and networks, and by talking with their parents or others to obtain information of only 2%. Most of the children said their parents will only help them live, and not chat to communicate with them, even if the occasional chat, and the content is just learning it.
Education experts pointed out that: no matter how busy parents, holiday entertainment with children must take a certain time.
Summer is a season of colorful, children entertainment show physical, mental, nature of the golden years. Parents should is children summer activities of Wizard and close partners, in work zhiyu, to as far as possible more taking some time, and children together carried out swimming, and outing, and camping, and climbing, and appreciation music, and making small crafts, useful of activities, such both can rich children of experience, growth insight, pleasure physical and mental, let they enjoy enjoy nature of caress, and can close parents with children of relationship, makes family life more harmony harmony.
If, long-term letting children alone at home or just ignoring the children\'s feelings on their school will only have profoundly negative effects on children\'s mental health, and even children solitary, silent, depression, autism and other mental illnesses.
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