Parents how to say \"no\"?

Child psychology research shows that when children make unreasonable requests, parents say \"no\" more influential than the suit the child. Casually said to the children \"may\" be indifference and indulgence, and, as appropriate, to say \"no\" is the real concern and care. Children say \"no\" despite the child\'s cry, the baby is in revolt at the same time aware of the dignity and authority of parents. Of course, the children say \"no\" does not mean returning to old traditions (imposed on children rebuke, called autocratic style of management), but by contradictory eventually reached a consensus between parents and children so that children learn to distinguish right from wrong. So, parents the child says \"no\"? In General, should be aware of the following several points:

First, not to bargain with the children. Many parents used to say \"eat after dinner it is not allowed to see the cartoon\", this is very bad influence on children, because children follow parents ready to bargain. Also not to say \"MOM and dad are happy\" like children for their parents \' favor may lie or do other stupid things.

Second, the child cannot be applied to revenge. Some parents often say \"If you don\'t listen to me, I do not meet your requirements\", parents will lose their dignity and children induced by revenge.

Third, both parents want to remain consistent. When parents reject children require unreasonable place, the other party do not refute in the presence of children, otherwise easy to develop a child between the parents of opportunistic bad habits.

Four, to the children to explain the reasons for the refusal. Parents say \"no\" after, patiently explain to children the reasons for the refusal, to let children understand \"no\" the truth.

Five, some little things of life to discuss with the children. For example, children of daily work schedule arrangement to seek the views of children, but parents must seize the initiative, not endless bargaining with the children.

Six, and bans. If you say \"no\" to parents and children after compromise or concession, this will not only lose the prestige of the parents, will also enable children contaminated by bad credit habits.