On crying 1-2

Not frustrate the sense of fear of separation
　
Most of the children between the ages of 1-2 crying is because sentiment was affected, may be fear, anxiety, isolation, loss of mother, or separated from the mother.

No sense

Child of 1-3 and mother was less and less contact and touch, but behind the surface independent, young children often show a great deal of fear and tension, which often occurs in about one year old child. You may notice that the child more quiet, more obedient than usual, be they meet strangers in a strange environment, always pull your thighs; children even do not want to eat. These are all manifestations of anxiety.

What
Anxiety in children the best approach is to give children more love, should also encourage children full of curiosity and exploration spirit, strengthen their self-confidence. When the child is success or progress, be more recognition, reward. Child needs your commended, in order to get your praise, he can do anything, he certainly wanted to show their very independence. Encourages the child is not a difficult task.

A dependence on the mother, believe that the mother of the child, always mother serving as base points, confidence to explore their own unknown world. Many studies have shown that child if you have reliable presence, new, may they fear a problem can be resolved, nor can overcome and concomitant with anxiety.

Fear of separation

Due to the dependence of children whose parents are too strong, leaving the parents are the main causes of children caused by disturbed, and fear of separation can cause the child\'s anxiety. When the fear of isolation, insecurity, anxiety, or making children feel disturbed, the child would cry. Unrest related to the child\'s age and severity of the children (you may find that, 15 months children than children stronger ability to endure the separation of some 10 months), and when you leave the child related to the specific situation of; on the left with the children\'s environment is familiar with the. And of course children previously accepted the separation of experiences related to, if the child is unhappy for the first time, the second can only cause more unhappy children.

Children certainly do not want to be dropped regardless, from a certain amount of sense, you do your parents do, the better qualified, child and you cry, the more serious.

What
For children cowardice not to express contempt, more sympathy and support to children as far as possible, as far as possible with actions, not just the use of language to encourage children, believe the children. If the promised child half an hour to come back, be sure to come back in half an hour; when it comes to the next room, must not go too far; if promised playing games with children after 5 minutes, and he must keep his promise. Children only believe you can keep his promise to produce the self-confidence.

If you want to understand children, believe that the child, it is best not to protect the child, nurse the child can only limit the child\'s sense of exploration, hindering children build self-confidence.

Frustrated

When approaching 2 years old, child\'s spirit of exploration than the accurate coordination and action of his own ability. He would want to do some of your own ability, balance, strength, and so the less agile, and caused the child\'s sense of frustration. You naturally caused major causes of child frustrated, because you for child safety considerations often prevent a child from doing things they want to do.

What
Must be patient, to the child is the greatest support to help children, help children to paint, building blocks take the pagoda for help children help children climbed trees to help children build fortresses on the beach, help children animals hair and small soldiers. If a child due to their incompetence of frustration and crying when, you can use another game he likes attract children\'s attention.

Children learn to others in the game, or want to do something that only the big boys can do when experiencing setbacks, you can recommend children do this thing together with you, let your child know he can do it. Children need to explore new things, at the time was not immediately successful, still need to keep, too many failures can cause adverse reactions.

Don\'t children see, regardless of whether the child needs to sit potty, you should eat everything not to argue with the children. Children need to have an independent mind, in may cases, to respect their independence and do not impose on children. Let the child decide whether need to take a potty. If a child is only eat mung bean or ice cream, don\'t worry. Quietly accept the child\'s behavior is far much better than the argument.