Young children also have offensive capability. Due to the negligence of parents, with little attention aggressive behavior in young children, also believe that lively, and children in the process of growing up, his legitimate rights into aggressive behavior.
Attack and we will not favour or in favour of behavior – both of which are associated with the energy and target, help us with victimization and damaging actively grasp the challenges of life.
Most of us to our children when they rudely treated by others to maintain their own rights. We hope that they will not fight, but if an attacker can cope with the attacker, it is not suppressed. A child too much or too little aggression to find a healthy balance in growth might be his most difficult task.
According to the theory of development, attacking impulse or drive are derived from human children, is the key to mental vitality and survival levels.
In the first year, young children often do not see the attack, and encourage him to push, pull, or to others so that force is obvious signs of commanding ability and activist, reflect attacks healthy maturity. But the 9-month-old child caught in your hair, he did not know that hair will get hurt – you can see in other acts to act similarly rich naughty.
Only the following year, when child development to distinguish between \"I\" and \"you\", he begins to understand his anger against a person and the human face. We usually talk only to the second year of a child cruelty to others or hostile. Even then, he still does not know the causes of influencing his behavior or how to adjust his behavior towards others. When you hit a 15-month-old child when fragile objects, he is protecting, not looking forward to its results.
Sometimes parents say their child care than fighting or biting \"know more\". They think that the reason for this is because when he was ridiculed when he felt shy. Children\'s understanding of is not who he hurt or destroy something, but his parents do not approve of his actions. Instead, when he gently to another when a person deserves, he knows he is pleased for his behavior is allowed at this time. He can understand not beating before or without bite for many occasions, to spend time and constantly reminds him.
Child care, especially below the age of three, almost does not know their own strength. In between kisses and bites, and playing, nudges and brought down a person does not automatically understand, children need reminding: for example, \"Let me show you how to tap the baby (or dog, or father of the family\'s face)\" \"Pat felt very comfortable. Wounded \"; or\" soft (or gently), like this. ”
Early childhood development in other areas too, some steps and stages in a social attack, which requires you to spend some time mastering the different behavior of children of all ages. If you know of an infant or young child or children of 4 years, you can adjust your own behavior and education for real hope and regret and frustration can make up for you. When he frustrated or upset, decided to become an angry, destruction and uncontrollable 4, 10, 12 years old children, you don\'t need to imagine your child will be very angry with anxiety or hard to control his aggression. The other hand, if you are 4 years old children often broke out aggressive behavior, does not seem to be concerned about the results of his attacks and even seems happy to hurt someone, your concern is on, to find ways to help him correct into healthier behaviors.
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