The don\'t make a child

Author: [us] saisiya·huaisi
Publisher: South China Sea publishing company
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Last date: 2005-8-23
Regular price: $ 16.8

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About the author:

Saisiya·huaisi, distinguished experts on education, excellent clinical social worker, United States, Associate Professor of the University of California at Los Angeles parent Training Institute, had the right to special permission of the Los Angeles parent training. For many years, her parents, teachers and clinicians offer a number of training courses and popular. As a mother of two, she repeatedly practicing her education skills at home.
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The preamble

Why do you want to read this book

How to use this book

Chapter 1th bite

2nd chapter in the car play

3rd chapter lie

4th chapter when you dine out bad behavior

5th chapter small fighter

6th chapter to go to bed when patterns all

The 7th chapter homework further delay
8th chapter obsessed TV

The 9th chapter of trouble in the electronic games and other toys

The 10th chapter finicky

11th chapter desserts excessive

The 12th chapter of language uncivil

13th Chapter wanted to go shopping or go to entertainment

14th chapter deep discussion makes the shoe-related worries

15th chapter wearing improper

16th chapter would like to keep a pet

The 17th chapter of pop music zhentianxiang
The 18th Chapter to wear designer clothes

Chapter 19th begged in a store bought this bought that

The 20th chapter endless \"more time\"

21st chapter reached out for money

Chapter 22nd makeup

23rd chapter so desperate to talk on the phone

Chapter 24th pierced ear hole

Chapter 25th and friends alone at home

The 26th chapter dating

Appendix: mentioned in this book of education methods

Why do you want to read this book

Do you think it would be difficult to say \"no\"? You are your own views in disciplining children not to follow through and feel sad? Or, in respect of children, do you because they disagree with the people who helped you with your child struggle? Are you in for education of the child before the contradictions arising from conflict?

This book is a comprehensive and detailed show you secrets of solving the above problems. Of course, different families have different circumstances: some cannot accept that children have a sweet tooth, some can\'t stand noise to this to the children in the supermarket, and some don\'t think kids watch TV for too long, there is only hope that the children can go to bed on time. I had this opening of a training course in University of California, Los Angeles, during which many parents raised the issue as described above. In this book, I will use one of the 26-typical case, described in how to say \"no\".

Reading this book, not only make you realize that you can say \"no\", and must have constraints on children\'s behavior, to ensure their healthy growth. Parents need to make certain standards of conduct required for the kids, to identify themselves to their expectations. When a child do something beforehand, parents to be descriptions may produce effects and consequences. In this environment of growing up in children, adults are likely to be physical and mental health, optimism, a sense of responsibility and good interpersonal people.

Indeed, in many cases, children need someone said to him \"no\" when he wanted other children\'s toys, when to visit family friends want to play when he insisted on playing chess, when parents want to sleep but he drilled into people when making trouble on the bed, If parents learn to say \"no\", the children will begin to realize that brothers and sisters, parents and friends have their own right, they will slowly learn to put yourself in consideration for others, this is the first step in developing their sense.

Some really bad things to the children, must be subject to constraints. For example: too much sweet food, long time sitting in front of the television, puppy love, and so on. When we found the child should be saying \"no\", they take off the gloves to, make we fed up. Children die when grinding hard foam or playing little temper, parents take concessions Act is very unwise. Doing so not only counterproductive, and gave the children a misleading: cry of the children have milk to eat! Just imagine, if you have children later in life, as they keep on at a means to an end, it would be kind of a situation!

I found that the biggest challenges for parents: they cannot grasp the child\'s behavior is right or wrong, improper behaviors of children holding a love-hate of ambivalence. One hand, they want to establish the children\'s code of conduct, and doubt the feasibility of the behavior of their children, eventually was at a loss. They want to be friends and help to children, rather than the opponent. They do not want to request every child were conditioned to granting of negatived \"as Lao Zi said no, no\" what kind of parents. However, is, unfortunately, many parents in the presence of excessive requirements for children

Step: should have been severely denied, they gave them freedom of choice.

This book will guide you to understand children\'s needs, be patient and listen to their feelings, redefined the value of your own. Through the tips in the book, by your own thoughts, you will be able to develop a clear code of conduct for your children (that is, let him know what behavior is bad), and start to effectively resolve resulting conflicts.