Concealing is not lying

From small children do not lie, almost every parent has been trying to do things, however, the bad habit of lying seems to be children born, the more people worry about child care lie, his young children lie seems to have more serious; children more lies will be more and more, lying on the ball will grow stronger.

Three or four year old child got his pants urine, if accountability constricta him \"you don\'t know how to pee? \"He might have said:\" I play water, sitting on the floor. \"Seven year old child, the case of door check on health, might have said,\" MOM and dad are not, please come again another day. ”

For this kind of lies, there are social lies, white lies, increasing the prestige of lies and lies to evade punishment, and so on. Child tells a lie though sometimes no less than the magnitude of the adult. But adults also there is a big difference.

In General, very little child tells a lie out of spite, they lie not so much, rather they only provide error information, usually they do not think you are lying. Child care provides errors of information, many learning is for help psychological, such as above two cases, first cases of child care is fear was playing called, provides false of situation to was support identity, to avoided punishment; second cases is unwilling to check health people came in, may is full of toys has trained these people of free mobile \"damage\", may is listen to had parents on these people of does not welcomes of words. After shuts people out, he will tell their parents they say, if you agree with him, he will feel protected, with a warm sense.

Therefore, not easily to to child care fictional things and deliberately lie equivalent up, fictional things often is fantasy caused of, and lie is is deliberately of cheat and misleading, if anti-child care of virtual words errors think is lie and be remarks, that line on will makes children in sought protection and imitation or adult of learning, was puzzle and at; and parents words and deeds Shang of has no intention of errors, also will was children as is lie, to to they brings moral identity Shang of confusion and psychological suppressed. Of course, is not to say that you can cancel the honesty education for children, more is not to say that children are not lying when they grow up to a certain age, from the Green came out, understand the value of objective, should make it clear that they had lied and remarks.