Children grow up to 3 years old, has shown signs of gender differences emerge. For 3 year old boys, girls, parents should be how education and training? Talk of following several typical situations, to parents as a reference.
Clever girl
Girl\'s physiological development all earlier than boys, especially the development of girls small muscles flexible coordination of the hands, the strengths of boys was pawing, and girls dexterous hand will show their talents in many ways.
Specially painted red and Green: girls aged 3 to comfortable holding a brush, to press his intention to draw like the animals, flowers, grass, small house. Girls generally sensitive to color comparison, color coordination, colored uniform and delicate and draw the picture compared to male children more vulnerable to the praise of the adult. This positive implies that strengthening girls \' enthusiasm for painting, so we often see little girls on quietly in the Huaben creation.
Parents should be 3 year old daughter ready to color. Needs to be emphasized is that give children ready for some big paper, laying on the ground or placed on the desks and chairs, to let children have a brush. In other countries, children have their own rooms, many parents allow their children to the wall, paint on the ground, when some parents move is very regrettable, because the daughter cannot be \"painting\" away.
Act as a go-between: girls on sewing, small cords is also for the bright lights, some girls will be watching the mother knit sweater, doing needlework, had the opportunity to find some and cloth woven fabric seam joints. Parents don\'t have to worry about their children being needle bad, just tell children needle use, will take care of the children.
If your child is interested in sewing, I suggest you give the children a \"clever basket\", put some unused odd bits of cloth or wool, to give baby sewn new clothes, when you see a 3 year old little girl in one hand and pins, one hand line, slightly peer at scene of Act as a go-between, will feel full of the joy of life.
You can give her daughter some small buttons or small beads, then some color the cord, children will sit down to a tiny pearls look, made into beautiful necklaces. Have a child to kindergarten every day went straight to \"zhuzhu basket\", sit for a long time, concentrate, one by one put on a beautiful small zhuzhu, Garden home, with personally put on the same day of the \"necklace\" to the mother, my mother became more beautiful because of pride.
In addition to painting, sewing, girls also liked to imitate mother do the housework, such as the learning of mother looks to sweep, wipe tables, though sometimes do is not satisfactory, but the parents do not let children lose opportunities to exercise because of the troubles. See more, do more, multiple practice. Let the children more flexible hands.
\"Frederick Zollo\" boys
Compared with girls, 3 boys are more like those of significant movement in thick lines, like the gun stick dance.
Training video for practice, protection of the weak: boys like gun rods, chasing play, make people feel when not silent, always run to run. Kindergartens hold regular meet the girls with Doll \"House\", and boy are they came all the way, the arrival of a confused collapse, anger the girls cry, teacher or parent can tell the boys about \"Frederick Zollo\" story of infiltration to child care for the drowning, small, concept of helping others.
Robust body, increased physical: \"Frederick Zollo\" man both full love, again buoyant, such to better to care weak, encourages children more do outdoor activities, led he adhere to every day exercise, strong fitness of while also exercise has children of perseverance, using men children good dynamic love playing of features, parents can led children lots participate in various activities: swimming, and slipped roller skating, and riding bike,, invited other of children and parents together to suburban go go is a good idea.
Was not the same: 3 years old children already have preliminary observation and analysis, decisions, issues of capacity. They used curious eyes of the world, and constantly raise problems which makes parents feel more difficult issue is about \"sex\" issues.
Raised in response to the child \"sex\" issue, parents to relax--because of their children no consciousness at all, not to adult eyes to evaluate the child.
Second is to understand the background of the child to ask questions-the child is not ask nothing, sexual problems is only one. Parents pretty well shot.
Third, when you answer the questions you want to use language that children can understand, straightforward, simple, clear. For example children ask: \"why Dad standing toilet, squatting and mother go to the toilet? \"MOM can answer:\" because the father and mother is not the same! You see father sounds rough, MOM sounds fine, Dad strength sth \"
Prominent personalities: girl good hand flexibility, but we will find that famous ophthalmologists, operation of fine operation is mostly males. In fact, the boys and girls there are gender differences, but never formalized this difference. Some parents simply think the girl that is quiet, stable, not holding the sticks brandished; boys should be bold, masculine, see boy holding a doll is simply intolerable. This rules measured child will bound the personality development of children.
Require that our children have unique personalities in the information age, to different, let the child know \"I am unique.\" Performance of boys and girls, on gender differences in phases, with the passage of time, will continue to differ, anastomosis of fluctuations. Therefore, when parents in education and children, should pay more attention to the interests of the child, respect the child\'s personality. If the girls are interested in digital, she encouraged more, rather than indoctrination towards her \"awkward girl, learn Mathematics\" concept.
There is an old saying in China called \"three years\" period of 3 years is the key to physical and psychological development of children, parents of finePatience and love will help children to better growth.
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