Before the age of 5, baby sleep with MOM and Dad can do?

\"To see people abroad, children three or four months alone in the room when sleep! \"Some parents think so to follow suit, to exercise independence of the child. But psychologists pointed out that children under 5 is and parents also slept with is better, can allow the child\'s sense of security needed to be fully met.

\"A heart deep insecurity of children,
Cannot be an independent person in the spirit. \"Beijing huilongguan hospital chief physician Zhao Chengzhi such descriptions. If people from the lack of a sense, then there will be a strong possessive, always want to control others and afraid of changes, these unhealthy psychological excessive strong, tends to cause some extreme measures to solve the problem.

Security establishment is starting from the birth of the children, parents easily neglected in this period, or even take a number of wrong ways. Such as children cry should not get up kid? Some attitudes strongly parents feel unable to cry keep, otherwise it will spoil him, and the fact that as long as you don\'t hold, he soon stopped crying and crying. Zhao reminded the \"smug\" parents: comparison with warm and comfortable environment within the mother\'s uterus, neonatal faced all of the external environment is likely to be a trauma to him. Babies are very sensitive to temperature, climate, hunger, parents of so-called exercise, will let the children fears become strong. The correct practice should be when the baby\'s crying parents holding him up in a timely manner, with their own body temperature and touch, to let children feel the environment safe from the outside world.

Children from birth to about age 5 or so, the best and slept in with his parents, not necessarily in a bed, but must be a distance close enough so that children feel the cold, hunger, dark, to relieve himself and some when they are needed immediately to parental care and comfort. Otherwise, the child will feel unsafe. Because access to many foreign educational methods, today\'s parents are very easily from one extreme to the other extreme. Think past practices too doting, all hold child sleeping are not separated, and now, let the children from several months to be sleeping in his cabin. Doctor Zhao believed that children from about 5 years old sleep separately from their parents more appropriate, exercise their independent spirit is not too late at this time.

Then a little child, parents in the development of their sense of security to do not too spoil. Excessive indulgence, everything the package will reduce child to explore, growth opportunities, found themselves powerless when faced with social alone, resulting in a mistrust of the outside environment. So, in between neglect and overprotective parents to grasp a degree, distinguish between what children really want, is to seek help or by means of crying. Some children have been bullied on the outside, irresponsible parents immediately reprimanded him: \"How can you be so timid, why not call people, not against sth\" such accusations will let children suspected the insecurity in the world, once such doubts, they won\'t trust anyone, development for unhealthy psychology. When you get hurt and scared the children, parents should promptly appears in the side, told him the danger has already passed. People are the most important, throw away your things will be, the world is safe after all.