3/9/11

Baby when frustrated?

Fei-Fei will write many figures and little age to a keen interest in mathematics. But you know what? Fei as one road of maths is not smooth, even almost gave up the? Thanks to fly flying mothers spend a lot of thought before he becomes a \"baby math\".


One began to teach fly flying write very smooth digital, 1-7 didn\'t take much time schooling has become, but when he xingquangran to write a full House at 8 o\'clock, he found that he could write well, once again, left right, not in any way like a \"hyacinth\". Tears fall Fei-Fei was Fei-fei, left the pencil--not learned, too difficult to write, mathematics is not good to play with! At this time, Fei-Fei mum just hugged him, wiping his tears and said, \"is not a cucurbit 8, fly fly tonight I can write. \"Then began to teach him hands-on, then flew flown fly flying one person, one mother and piece of paper, and wrote hundreds of gourd 8 per person. Finally, Fei-Fei intense little face was the smile. Confidence returned to his body.


Expert analysis: fly fly how MOM handles child setback:


First of all, children in setback when pride was challenged when, in this moment to realize that the baby was called ambitious, although the capacity of your children do not have you looking forward to. Fly fly mother holding the baby, to wipe the tears of the children showed her children this is the case for admission to the full. However some parents to their children was disappointed, saying \"what\'s going on, how can you be so stupid!? \"In this way, children will suffer setbacks in also to bear the blame, this double whammy can make children more vulnerable.


Second, children do not have enough capacity analysis, determine the current how big is the difficulty of his frustration in the end, there is no way to deal with stress and frustration, it\'s up to adults to guide us, such as Fei-Fei MOM \"is not a cucurbit 8, fly fly tonight I can write\", and should not say: \"what? \"\" I have for you is no solution. \"Also, Fei-Fei Ma deeds, hands-on and teach children to write, let the children be writing essentials, with even more valuable is to accompany the children wrote hundreds of\" 8 \", in the parent-child communication, let fly fly full was mum on the side to support him, he will succeed. Perhaps some people may think this is too boring for adults, support children\'s growth is not a top priority for our parents do?


Finally, Fei-Fei MOM made us feel a mother\'s love for children: after a day of hard work, is very hard, and Fei-Fei Ma is still very patiently help children solve problems, and enjoy with taste only a mother can also to, and the mother of hope and happiness only in this way can have.

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