Each child seems to have its own color preference of the unconscious, children playing 24 colored plasticine, 36 color painting pen, there is always one or two colors need early \"unwinding\"; to the counter for children to buy clothes, style novel no matter how cute, Miss sales cannot persuade the child to accept his \"surprise\" of color.
To love a child extreme color, his personality is often more prominent, such personalities often are his strengths and weaknesses of the \"breaking point\". Finding the \"breaking point\" parents \' guide can be more targeted.
One of: pink-particularly strong dependence
Most girls like pretty in pink. If you love the little girl likes pink, then economic environment above the General level of your home, and also symbolizes the parents full expression of love.
Under the protection of love, this girl has \"high degree of aesthetics\", \"careful consideration\", \"elegant\" and \"soft\" material, is also attractive at all.
4~6sui girls, there are special people who hate pink. Pink is a color that hate it are particularly annoying, and the pursuit of its people, even to buy a pillow and holder \"pink overlaid with five petal flower\". A lot of evidence that girls love pink special adhesive of the parent-child relationship with their parents, particularly dependent on their parents on the psychological, hope adult size matter for her mind, standing in front of her \"shield. \"If the parents refused when the\" shield \", let her to solve the problem, her tears immediately opened the gate of the tap off the caged. Rongrong is an example, all her products are pink, human fat, nickname \"pink pig\", but is such a high-fat girl, even the ball companion took her home, she refused to go to the \"negotiations\", not to drag-and-her mother to say to each other\'s children.
Mother often sighed: this small greenhouse flowers, can be transplanted into the wilds do in the future?
Found II: green, and blue-nasty competition
Children love green, and blue has a tendency to avoid competition, particularly green. Favorite green children, more easygoing, cheerful personality, there is nothing racked their brains, with inclusive forgiving heart and a strong sense of curiosity, and desire of knowledge. This type, adults suitable for salary levels, such as to do practical perseverance, can also have a successful day, many boys were this type of brilliant aspect.
Even the small three-wheeled bicycle to select \"green grass\" Zhuo Shan rather than in kindergarten plant point afternoon \"parade of ants\", rather than with a group of kids playing \"a game of musical chairs\". \"She obviously anxious deft of hand, could grab win, I do not know how to play the game will go to the toilet. \"Apart from hate this\" 8 people Rob 6 Chair \"of game, Zhuo Shan also smart to avoid and peer of\" cruel competition \", such as to rehearsal Snow Princess under no people wanted to speech\" fierce of Queen \", Zhuo Shan on hands said may speech Queen, because Snow Princess has 12 bit children wanted to speech, 11 a people doomed to experience failed of taste, Zhuo Shan said: I do not want to with others to race. And he said, if there is a fairy tale, can make everybody happy all previous role, it would be nice.
MOM had this concern: Zhuo Shan love green, whether to quell the unrest and in her heart, her yearning for a world in which there is no competitive relationship, harmonious and perform their respective duties? When children must be facing the brutal competition in the future whether laryngeal hair tight, hands sweating, and \"run away\" idea?
Discovery of three: purple and orange-excessive emotional
Preference for Orange Purple kids have mood swings and violent tendencies, but prefer Orange more optimistic, emotional Jolt when you look at the positive side, good at self-fallinf. \"Orange line\" children only defect is that being bad mood master may be offensive. Child is completely the opposite of love purple, his emotions out of control to the outside, only-in-tone of the other one look, one sentence, he zooms in mind many times, very sensitive, some change in your attitude to him, are about his mood of a day or two. Parents and teachers had to often embarrassing to comfort him: \"that is not what I mean, I mean sth\" is worth noting that, like the purple more boys than girls are, this might explain the two facts: first, why nervous successful artists have never more men than women and secondly, why \"and sulked\" strange boy are common. To release pressure sensitive girl with tears, boy was brought up was education \"don\'t cry! Be strong! \"Boys will be left with\" odds \"a method of expression.
If finding love purple boy \"odds\", do not scold him, think about how to effectively soothe him the \"vulnerable\".
Discover four: Orange-vitality and pride
Love the Orange, more extroverted and lively personality, talking love and popularity, well, interesting is that young people like Orange, will likes to be loyal to one \' s spouse until his death in adult, though sometimes temporary like a different color, but will once again return to the embrace of the Orange. This type of creativity, self centered, than not knowing how to understand others, carelessness, naive to think that the Sun is a good man, so easily cheated.
Like all scene components--the Sun, the dancing men, House with a chimney and the flowers in front of the House are painted Orange children, usually in groups of \"Star\", and together was partners with his family, he wants to be dominated in all plans, hoped that by his word. Of course, he was optimist, cheerful enthusiasm, the only disadvantage is that ignorance of compromise, refuses to stand forever dependent status. Kindergarten rehearsal fairy tales, unless he is the first hero, otherwise he would refuse to perform and refused to show, sitting in the audience he was a tireless \"picky\", \"Prince Liu Chang played not at all smart, if I should be wearing a red cloak,
Horse fly down actions like Batman. What do Liu Chang knows Batman is? ”Preference for Orange kids always seem to make friends in distress: for his fire and passion, to a new environment is easy to make friends, and his arrogant and overly self-centered, new friends are also easy to quarrel with it.
Discovery of five: Brown-the same as the elderly worry about excessive
We found an interesting phenomenon: from small by able parents brought their children very little preference for Brown, but those who due to parental pressure, born a few months by the grandparents to raise children, 4 years after about one-fourth preference for Brown. This is a color of mature wisdom, Brown sweater, skirt and round shoes, there are small brown bag, looks like four or five ladies and gentlemen. Don\'t be confused by this quiet appearance, not consciously select the Brown children inside often lack a true sense, failing to look before and after, indecisive, rarely revealed his carefree expression. Their grandparents grew up around most conservative in character, was young, I was taught not to cut in, be subject to adults, to be good at suppressing one\'s \"unreasonable demands\". This educational model is easy to cultivate a well-behaved child, was virtually suppressed optimistic nature and creativity of the child.
Discovery of six: blue water and white-perfectionism tendencies
Cent of girls and 15% boys about a serious tendency to perfectionism, they without exception, like white, and shallow water to the pole blue. Love almost all white children cleanliness: than other children on his bed, with his towel or borrowing his stationery, himself clean degree is first-class, summer for three sets of white coats, a day, five pairs of white socks. He is always trying to make friends, but soon because they cannot tolerate friend\'s shortcomings and deny others. White children and their parents-loving parent-child relationship is often awkward.
Senior Accountant aged 34 Tu Zhengyun described her son: \"he seems to Jiao affectedly sweet nothing, he seems to be the home of reserve, impeccable guest. What he should do the best, a small piece of piano etudes did not play well he looks very anxiety and blame. I hope he relaxed a little, after all he is only five years old, but this is clearly not accepted by him. Sometimes I even feel that he is not satisfactory to us, our pair of casual geniuses, nor his idea of \' ideal father and ideal mother \'. \"To have such a eyed I surveythe find fault with your child to do? He is clearly his own tension, also makes people nervous around him.
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