Independence and literacy, which is heavy/early childhood education
Yang Yuan 4 and a half of this year, will back many Tang poems as well as a lot of words, speaking of stories are vivid. However, for clothing, shoes, lace up those she had learned life skills, she seems very \"low energy\". To this end, the mother worried--children are too smart or too stupid?
However, such examples around us are not uncommon. Now more and more emphasis on the parents of a child\'s early education, in particular intellectual development, ignoring the cultivation of the ability of children. In kids meal is too slow, Yes when rice sprinkled everywhere, in small children wearing clothes of positive and negative, regardless of the time, parents not the patience to teach him and guide him, but to exceed one\'s duties and meddle in others \' Affairs, to replace them. Over time, the children have developed a psychological inertia, that parents should be, will not do or do not want to do it by yourself perfectly justified.
Therefore, we have to appeal to parents: children own business, you should do yourself!
Took kids dressed, not learning this skill is so difficult, not easy to learn, there are many reasons to remove these \"do not attach importance to\" factors, some parents did not have good ways and means of training, therefore, teach children life skills also need parents use their brains. Here, we teach children to dress you for parents techniques to give parents some tips, but also give us some enlightenment of children life skills:
Carefully selected: simple
There are many easy to design clothes and footwear, parents can purchase if you shop around, or ask, can make the child a lot of unnecessary frustration. Like the same sneakers, if ankle design hard point, high point, coupled with an index finger to hook the rope, children dress up would be much easier. Also has a lot of sneakers shoes only for decoration, and opened a chain on the side or instep, convenient for children to wear off. Some of the big boys if you can only afford to large-size, lace up sneakers, may wish to ask the salesman, replace with buckle shoes (design pulling string similar to the popular sportswear is now), not only has the function of tight shoes, salesman can also help you rolled up rope too long!
When buying socks, socks to weave pine will wear off easier than elastic stockings, a kind of \"socks of yin and Yang\" (foot part is dark) not only can prevent dirty or identification easier for the child to wear socks.
Short modified: convenient and easy to wear
If the child\'s ability not to button, parents can demolish the button part, sew on buttons. Sneakers followed by laces mentioned earlier, if it is difficult to let the children into the finger hook, can put a key in the laces, so it is easy on the hook, pull heel.
When some children wear sneakers, not drop ears of good shoes cover wear, so shoe ear will be involved, walked very uncomfortable. At this time, parents can rely on the lateral part of the foot of ears and shoes cover a little sewing a few needles, children shoes not good shoe ear before, is not involved.
Visual cue: save time and effort
Teach your children to wear clothes, before and after the resolution was the first important points. When wearing a new dress for the first time, you can let the children watch: \"you see, Winnie the Pooh (patterns) in the previous\" or \"you see, on this pocket of the pants in the butt\", has a first impression about his new clothes.
Try to do some obvious sign on clothes. If a child does not grasp the clothes of the General Assembly to set, you can dress skirt by singular strokes on the back of two lines, prompt hand position, and then directly into the header, direction generally wrong. If a child dress skills better front skirt can be clothes, sewing buttons on as a sign, to remind his clothes in front of.
Wear underwear and pants the notification method is also on the whole. Underwear and outer pants were young children do not have buttons, only the elastic belt, but still helped him sew on a button at locations around the navel, letting him know W. WAISTBAND button should be in the front and the navel. Growing up in mind, he wears pants in that location will also have buttons or hook hook, so this can be from small to large has been used Visual cues.
Use tags to before and after judgment is not applicable, children\'s clothing label on the market after the former, and children are wearing clothes, his eyes do not see the tag, so the comparison is not easy to distinguish.
Practice tip: proper method
When official teach children to wear, you should analyze all kinds of clothing practice difficult, starting from the simple exercises. In General, \"de\" rather than \"in\" easy, hedging is easier than Opening, placket, open front, Cardigan front jacket, clothing sizes larger than they really clothing or footwear, also will be relatively easy to practice. After the analysis of the practice steps to do precision work, but also to consider about how these series of steps.
1, is to chain: starting from the first steps to teach, the practice of the Church the next step, and then practice steps one and two in-line, and so on.
2, reverse chain: parent model or assists in the previous steps, leaving only the last step for the child to complete. For example: help children put on his trousers, leaving only \"zip up\" his completion of an action; the next exercise, you let children practice complete \"buttons on the button\", \"zip up\" the last two steps, so that children would be easier access to complete the work of a sense of achievement.
Don\'t underestimate these basic training, parents spend some energy design guidance, children will make it easier to learn to stand on earlier!
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