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3/9/11

Sex education what are the consequences of the error?

1. effects on the formation of character


The analysis of the character is a popular global bestsellers, writer Florence littauer (u) in the human character in the book are summarized in the following four basic types: active type (s), perfect (type M), power type (type c), peace (p). And listed the character of the four main features:


① lively character (s) outside · · optimistic


Advantages


Emotional aspects given goodwill, talkative, gathering of soul, a sense of humor, good memories, comfortable control exposed audience, emotions and love, passionate, good performance on the stage, happiness, elation, curiosity, talent, innocent face, realistic, versatile, sincere, childish


As a parent to family joy, love, live happily though in suffering were children of friends and as head of the circus


Work initiative, looking for new services, focusing on the work surface, full of creative, colorful, full of energy, enthusiasm, lightning start, encouraging others to participate, attracting others work


As friends make friends easier, and love for others, like praise, seemingly the excitement, an admirable, does not bear grudges, quickly apologized, avoid dull, like improvisational activities


② to perfect in character (m) within · thinkers · pessimistic


Advantages


Emotional thoughtful, analytical, serious, have goals, talents, full of creativity, rich music art cell, calm a poetic, pursuing perfect, sensitive response and self-sacrifice to others, a sense of responsibility, and idealism


Made as a parent, hope everything is done on a higher standard, keep house in good order, help the children to clean up, willingness to sacrifice for others is their own, to encourage scholarship and talent


Work of advance planning, perfect, high standards and attention to detail, A friend in need is a friend indeed, structured, organized, clean, and stress economic efficiency, identifying problems, creative solutions, thrift, use of charts, data analysis, directory, issue


Cautious and willing to make friends as friends stayed in the background, to avoid attracting attention, loyal and reliable, will listen to the complaints and solve the problems of others, is caring, emotion abundant, easily moved, seeking the ideal partner


③ power-type character (c) outward · actors · optimistic


Advantages


Emotional leader, vibrant born initiative, urgent need to change, not to be wrong and will to resolutely, decisively, non-emotional and not easily discouraged, self-self-sufficient, confident, can operate all


As a parent to exercise leadership, set goals, contributed to the family action, know the right answer, housekeeping


Job target lead, across the Board, good management, to find practical solutions, rapid action, delegating work, adhering to production, set goals, contributed to the action, the more frustration more fen


As little friends need friends, working for the Organization, leadership and organization, is always correct and resourceful


④ peace-type character (p) within · viewers · pessimistic


Advantages


Emotional character low profile, easy, relaxed, calm, calm, poised, patient, easy adaptation, immutable, calm but witty, humane kind of life are, hidden emotions, be content with what one is inside, surface preparation


Good parents as parents, children spend time, tolerance, not angry


Peace of work familiar and reliable, no objection and administrative capacity, the mediation issue, avoiding conflict, good under pressure, and seek easy solutions


As easy to get along with friends, happy happy, non-offensive, a good listener, sharp humor, likes to sit out, a lot of friends, empathy, care


A person\'s character belongs to which types are irrelevant, because each type has its advantages and disadvantages. Important advantage is the ability to play the character of, overcome shortcomings in character.


Wrote in the book character analysis: we all have our own temperament characteristics, their combined materials, like some species of the genus rocks. Some of us are granite, some marble, some are Alabaster, some are gravel.


We kind of rock to be changed, but the shape is to choose from, our character is true. We have an innate trait, some of these characteristics as gold dotted and become perfect, and others have been destroyed by the fault. Our environment, IQ, ethnic, economic and environmental effect and parents are able to shape our character, but the inherent nature of change is not.


Temperament is \"true\" personality as I wear on the outside of clothing.


How external factors affecting human character formation?


United States psychologist Professor Rosenthal made a experiments, mice group randomly into two groups: group a and group b, and then, told a group of breeders said, a group of mice particularly clever; at the same time told the keeper of the b Group b and mice are of average intelligence. A few months later, these two groups of mice to test through the maze. Found a group of rats mice smarter than b group, be able to get out of the labyrinth, find food.


So Professor Rosenthal received a revelation, he took this revelation in human body.


He an ordinary secondary school, casually took a trip in a class, and has identified several students on the roster, tell the teacher that several of its students \' high IQ, and very smart. Professor came to this school after a period of time, that he really became a leader in the class of students.


Rosenthal said, I have several students don\'t know,

Teachers are all ears! why miracles can occur? Because people\'s \"aspirations\" divine effect.

Professor Rosenthal was a famous Professor of psychology, is authoritative in the minds of teachers, and teacher to his judgment convinced that several lucky students have a positive expectation, as you would treat their boy; and that several of the students of this expectation, also consider themselves to be wise, which increases confidence, improve learning standards. Eventually they really become a leader.


This is the famous Rosenthal effect: what you look at children as he becomes what!


Very easy to see in real life example of this is the class of \"class representative\". Does an account \"class representative\" learning is not necessarily the best, but because teachers and classmates thought he should of course the best, so treat him in a subtle way, and asked him, and he also set strict demands on themselves, eventually became a true \"class representative\".


Wrong sex education seems to undermine our innate characteristics of faults, sometimes destroy children\'s lives, please see the following a true story.

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