Infants lie three reasons

Child care to three or four years later, General lying behavior, cause lies in young children is multi-faceted, but to sum up, there are three.

First, for fear of reprimand, scolding while telling a lie. Children feel curious about everything around, especially home and just buy things, not to do it yourself, look at carefully, often accidentally, it will break things. At this time because of tensions arising in infant heart fears, fear of parents scold and swear, and unknowingly began telling a lie. For example: large classes of sweet once accidentally broke the mirror at home, my mother came back, who asked the mirror is broken, sweet free blame neighbor hening Wang broken. Thus, after the children do something wrong, will be inside an oppression, fear of punished, giving rise to fear, and its lies.

Second, due to the improper education of parents and lying. Lying is a dishonest act, found lying parents should promptly when education for young children. However, sometimes causing child tells a lie causes often parent education is usually caused by improper. For example: one day, Manager of pepper _ w in the kindergarten picked up $ 1 money to the mother, the mother busy says: \"MOM to buy bread for you\", and mysteriously pepper _ w said, if the teacher asked, said mother give you money to buy, it is clear that cause the Fong Fong lie, is under the influence of the mother\'s words and deeds. Strong children to imitate, parents of dishonesty, not only have a subtle influence on children, but also in their heart sowing seeds self-serving, beggar my neighbor.

Third, there is a certain desire to lie. Early childhood, mental development is not yet sound, perception of ability and adults also have some differences. Sometimes, children always want things as have been. This is due to child psychology and development of thinking is not yet perfect, thus producing the \"fantasy\" is not really lie. For example: Lulu neighbor children Park, see the children playing with a car, your home obviously does not have a car, but would say unquestioning: \"my dad bought me a lot of cars, than your fun. \"We can see that this lie precisely reflects the aspirations of the children looked forward to a car. He didn\'t really want to lying liar. Parents cannot be blamed, the self-esteem of children. Child care is often said that \"I\" or \"I have played,\" and so on, often was revealed not only desire, but also desire in disguise and restraint and desire.